Your opinion would be appreciated :)
Every time I see myself in the future, I am always alone. Not alone and sad or anything, just without a partner in life, in a house on my own.
I seem pretty content.
Is it possible to go through life without a partner and still feel good at the end of it? I’m quite young so an older perspective would be appreciated, especially anyone who has gone through life without a partner. How do you feel about that?
Btw I am a male, if that info helps at all :P
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its noting wrong if you will have a future life alone with no partner if your happy thats the best thing i know that if you have partner it would be much nice share things etc..but its nothing wrong it will be alone..
I think you see into the future including what you have now, I am pretty sure if you had a gf you would see yourself with her.
I have been single before and always saw myself being single, fancy free etc but now I am married with 3 kids lol
I think that comes with not knowing what the future will bring and also not being able to predict what may happen.
You could be single and happy for years, decades or forever there is nothing wrong in that and I think if you have people around you and goals to work for you can be happy with anything your life brings.
i’ve seen some men who never had a partner…i know they’re happy but maybe it’s the way they look,or maybe they’re just pretending,who knows?!?! but i assume when u became older u’d enjoy having kids,watch them grow…or at last having a grandchild…probably u won’t feel lonely 4 a while,but i assume being a lone cause loneliness soon or late…
if i were a boy i’d enjoy living alone…
Yea, you can!!…but,if you grow older…you need some support..like caring and affection when you needed!!
You can enjoy your life as you like…but, surely..well, (my point of you)..you have lots of friends to enjoy …and they have partner and family to live with…at that time, you may feel slightly bad(not now,but when you grow older), like you need some special attention from special someone ^_^….thts your partner..
This is my point of view btw ^^”..
Well, you never know what gonna happen next:P you might find yourself a girl soon:)
HARVARDgirl!! :) wrote:
if i were a boy i’d enjoy living alone…
That’s interesting, your last comment, what makes you say that?
littlenick wrote:
How old are you?
I hope you don’t mind if I don’t share that with you, I fear people would take me less seriously on here if they new :S
I suppose I enjoy being by myself, my alone time is very important to me. But I wonder if I’ll regret not compromising that with a relationship. Maybe if I found myself I nice quiet girl :). Thanks ❤ℓινιηgJst4u, that sounds like a good point of view ;)
You are welcome!! :)
Just enjoy you life as much you want in your way and be yourself(and be nice:P)..then girls will be running to you xDD
(If you did find someone, don’t forget to tell the good news here :D )
I’m a girl & i actually don’t picture myself getting married to one person for the rest of my life either at this point. Im kind of the “live free” type lol. It’s all up to you. I would love to have kids but at the same time I’m not even sure I’d be happy with that. I think as long as you have people close to you and you’re happy, that’s what matters. I don’t believe everyone in society has to share the same beliefs and desires about how they want to live. That’s kind of the beatiful part about life… you can live it however you want to. :)
wil wrote:
HARVARDgirl!! :) wrote:
if i were a boy i’d enjoy living alone…That’s interesting, your last comment, what makes you say that?
well…i don’t know…i’m not in love,i’ve never been…sometimes i think if i could stay single,i’d do whatever i wish…i’ll spend my time,reading & reading & reading &…go pass every field of study,i’d see world,do researches & i’d enjoy my life…marriage means a usual life… :1 maybe i’m not mature…littlenick wrote:
How old are you?I hope you don’t mind if I don’t share that with you, I fear people would take me less seriously on here if they new :S
❤ℓινιηgJst4u wrote:
You are welcome!! :)
Just enjoy you life as much you want in your way and be yourself(and be nice:P)..then girls will be running to you xDD(If you did find someone, don’t forget to tell the good news here :D )
haha, thankfully I’m quite good at enjoying life my way and being myself. Which means girls DO run to me ^^.
But what if when all my close friends get married themselves? I could possibly feel left out :S.
I hope love’s as intense as it sounds. I’ll need someone incredible to hold me back ^^
wil wrote:
❤ℓινιηgJst4u wrote:
You are welcome!! :)
Just enjoy you life as much you want in your way and be yourself(and be nice:P)..then girls will be running to you xDD(If you did find someone, don’t forget to tell the good news here :D )
haha, thankfully I’m quite good at enjoying life my way and being myself. Which means girls DO run to me ^^.
But what if when all my close friends get married themselves? I could possibly feel left out :S.
I hope love’s as intense as it sounds. I’ll need someone incredible to hold me back ^^
hey, i did told you that:P , its hard to find people single these days…(i mean)…everyone needs to be loved by someone.
Well, its the way you think…
you can’t find “perfect” girl… you just have to love her and accept the way she is(If she is your match ofcourse) ^^
Maybe I’m afraid I won’t find somebody who’s compatible with my un-compromising nature :S
wil wrote:
Maybe I’m afraid I won’t find somebody who’s compatible with my un-compromising nature :S
You will! Let them find you :) Then i’m sure they will understand you ^^
Thanks again ^^.
Have some ❤❤❤ ;D
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