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This guy that I am friends with asked me for my phone number. After texting for a while he told me that if he hadn’t had met his current girlfriend that he would’ve asked me out. His girlfriend is a freshman and he’s a sophomore (my age), but that’s really not the deal. She is “protective”. very protective. She made him delete all his facebook friends that are girls and he can’t talk to me online where his girlfriend can see.
We have a lot in common and talking to him is so easy but I can’t help but feel guilty. I feel like I’m helping him sneak around. I do like him, but after I found out he had a girlfriend I stopped because I knew there was really no hope.
My hands are all clammy and cold I just need someone to tell me what I should do or what I shouldn’t do.
I know, I’m young and this is just highschool stuff, but this could affect our friendship.

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beatricegalant 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

You did the right thing to stop. I tell you what, his relationship with a controlling girlfriend won’t last too long. Any relationship should be based on trust. On the other hand, why is he so weak to allow someone to control him? With you he feels free and that’s why he likes you. I am sure you won’t dictate him to delete anything. Sooner or later he will figure that out too and then he will choose you. Without any effort. In the meantime, stay back and watch. That is if you are willing to wait for him.

Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Thank you very much for responding to my post.
I contacted a friend that I trust and told her what happened and you guys had basically the same response. Thank you again for the tips.

Jet|ImNoLongerAstray 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

He’s always saying that he’s ugly and I asked him why and this was his response
“I get so used to my gf saying that she’s ugly”

As a friend, I feel like his mind is being poisoned. if that makes sense?

Help me with: So I’m just sitting here doing Chemistry :)

Jet|ImNoLongerAstray 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

LOL and I’m an idiot.
but tada ! That’s my face right there!

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