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what love?

I have no relationship. I almost never have. My love life has been a dragon from the gates of hell itself. What kills me the most is that I don’t see any end in sight. Believe me I’ve tried all the angles, even a great deal into many spiritual areas. I really don’t want to be around as long as I’m alone. . .doing my work during the day and going to bed frustrated and fed up with life every night knowing that it’s going to be the same tomorrow, a nd tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow, and tomorrow. . . When is this ******* living hell going to end? What more do I have to do that I have not done already. Somebody out there please give me a break for goodness sakes. I’m begging you. This is insane!!!!

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

Well I don’t know about love life exactly, but I do know how you can turn every night into something exciting. But I warn you the lifestyle gets addicitng and eventually the most random crazy stuff gets boring. All you do is get with a couple friends r o workers you just go out every weekend. Get pretty drunk and just leave common sense at home. If you want to talk to a girl you do it, if you want to dance with somebody you do it, if you feel like making out with a girl while her boyfriend steppe out to get drinks for her you just do it. Then of course you get punched in the face have a good laugh abd go to the next bar. Essentially I’m just saying if you want to do something or have fun do it.

How old are you?

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monkichirmo offline Verified User (6 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

you expect boredom so that’s what you get. you’ll learn that you can’t predict the future sometime.

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nextstar offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

don’t think about your loneliness & try to something for fun like flying a kite or bungee jumping .

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dorky offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 37 minutes after post)

It sounds like you are getting depressed. Don’t let it get you down that you do not have a relationship. Let me tell you, sure it is fun and good to have a relationship that is good, but your life does not have no meaning when you don’t have a relationship. In order to feel less lonely try to get a hobby or a club to go to. make every evening exiting and fun! If you want to feel happy in your life you should really make the start yourself i think. good luck!

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