life help: I have difficulty making choices… I do not why but this - Help.com

That is something you are dealing with my friend. The first choice you need to make right now is stop blaming others for your mistakes. It seems your father has been controlling you too much and for some reason you weren’t able to stand up for yourself. Things are bad right now for you, but today is the beginning of new chapter of your life. It is time to take control of your destiny, and your future. I don’t know if you have a job, but if you don’t finding one is a good idea. Take your time to discover a career you would like to pursue your real choice and go after. I hope you can find anything good from my suggestions - Good Luck :-)

i have sort of the same problem with my father. You need to step up and sort yourself out, getting kicked out of college is not going to hurt him just yourself. There has to come a time when you have to become a man and help yourself. Stand up to him and tell him how you feel or he will never respect you. As you have found out by following what he wants from you,you will never be happy, and if your not happy and do not have a goal you wont succeed. As for him being stingy how old are you? If you’re going college you should be old enough to get youself apart time job, and buy your own things.

I was 15 years old when I left my parents house for a job. I had to learn to be independent no matter what if I wanted to survive. I don’t think you need to be radical and moving out of parents’ house right now. I do think you should focus in getting yourself a job and continue to discover your career you want. Don’t be using your parents’ money for things you don’t need. I am sure your father you will notice you are changing. Silence is power too, no need to scream or anything just be strong. I think you are doing well - :-)