friends help: my friend’s boyfriend is so rude i wanna kick him - Help.com

i have to agree with you there he is very egotistic, but maybe he’s playing up like this because he’s scared that you could take her away from him,
otherwise surely his gf/your friend has noticed the way he’s been acting and has or will talk to him about it?

I would distance myself. There is no point getting angry. The guy is insecure and knows doing these things rubs u up the wrong way. Its almost cave man like behavior lol.

Maybe once your friend no longer has both of u doting on her, she will see him for what he really is.

Use this time to bond with others. Have more than one best friend.

Wow, that sucks :( I’m sorry. Maybe just sit there and tell him hey i don’t want her in that way get over yourself type thing. I hope he’ll screw off!

Why in the world would you want to continue to be around people like this? Don’t you think you deserve better?

grbghp wrote:
well, i made the mistake of pointing that out to her, and she doesn’t believe me.
now she is mad at me, i believe she thinks that i didn’t got over her and that i still don’t get along with him.

nice. (sarcasm). She should know better than to think that you are lying. Sit down and tell her point blank “you are my best friend and only my best friend. I’m not trying to weasel my way into your life like that. don’t you know me well enough to know that i would never try to break you guys up no matter what?”

So do you still like her? You must if this is really bothering you.

You must be caving in to his actions and he must notice it since he’s still teasing you on purpose.

Anyways, she’s just blind by the relationship and wants you both to like each other as she likes both guys very much. She wants support from you [the best friend] (but she will deny bad faults of the relationship you point out and will blame you for saying it because you “used to like her” as the result).

As Nat said, sit down and tell her bluntly how you feel of the situation/his actions/etc. If she really is your best friend, she should understand that hey, sometimes not all her boyfriends will like you and vice versa. You two are afterall, best friends and this can be a threat to any future relationship you or she can have with somebody else. As your bestie, she should take your opinion into consideration and see for herself what he does.

Probably cut down some of your time with the both of them. Maybe he might stop being so “cozy” with her when you’re not there to tease and maybe she’ll stop being blind when she realizes he acts differently when you’re not there.