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My best friend and I like the same guy…

a couple days ago he asked me out and i said i would think about it…when i asked my friend if it was ok, as i didnt want to hurt her feelings, she said it was fine and she was over him anyway…me nd my bf were talking two days ago and he said he cudnt even mention my name around her cuz she didnt want to hear it..im so confused! did she lie to me? she knows that if she is hurt i wud automatically break up with him, my bf said that he didnt want to drive a wedge between us…what do i do? she is coming over tomorrow should i approach the subject with her? HELP

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kagome10 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I think you should talk with her. Tell her if what your BF said is true and talk and maybe come up with a agreement of some sort xD. that’s the best way to go.

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Uh if your not a guy than you don’t know how they do things. He might be interested in her friend and just leave her. I don’t know if her friend is hot he might do that but im not trying to scare you. The truth is it really doesn’t seem like you two could have a steady relationship with your friend in there.

kagome10 wrote:
I think you should talk with her. Tell her if what your BF said is true and talk and maybe come up with a agreement of some sort xD. that’s the best way to go.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Your bbf is pissed, period. And first rule of friendship, no matter what they say when asked, never, i repeat, never go out with someone that your friend has been interested in, is interested in or you think she may be interested in. Period. Unless, you don’t care and don’t mind losing the friend. Then,go for it.

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