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i am so lost my husband left me because he wasnt happy with me 1 month ago.

I am pregnant and have a two year old i have no home and no one to talk to. now he wants back if i can trust him but he’d done had his fun. i want him back but i just dont know what to do and im not sure i can trust him anymore someone please help!

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i wouldn’t take him back so easily. make him work for it, if he dropped you so easily once and is crawling back now, you want to make sure it’s bc he really loves you, not bc he just got bored or tired of having fun. you don’t want your children to be raised by a flaky father. best of luck, i hope things work out for you and your children.

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kinkykat8484345 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

been pregnant ull find that this is hitting u even more,
me and my husband broke up one new yrs eve but got back together next day that nite we wrked out how much we both been messing up.
since then its been great.
a lot we have been through, this month we lost r baby i was carryin r 1st child. and its hard but we spent hours talking and belive me talking to each other bout ur probs may work if u really cant trust him then id not take him back simply becos u need truth respect to get a marrrage working.
hope this lil rant of mine has helped xx

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i wouldn’t take him back so easily. make him work for it, if he dropped you so easily once and is crawling back now, you want to make sure it’s bc he really loves you, not bc he just got bored or tired of having fun. you don’t want your children to be raised by a flaky father. best of luck, i hope things work out for you and your children.

agreed, ive seen plenty of women take their partners back without truly working on whatever issues there are, then they play the game all over again once they realise they can come and go with ease
dont give in because your pregnant and have no home right now, you obviously have somewhere to stay at least, just stay put and work on things from a distance, you dont want to be placed in the same situation again only with a toddler and baby to care for

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

(((hugs))) kinkykat

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours after post)

what can i say to you.

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leighr12 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 58 minutes after post)

hi

summer follows winter - he wasn’t good enough for you - you will find a new summer. It will pass.

You deserve better!

Do what I did when I lost it all - build a vision for the future and stick to it.

L

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