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SUICIDE HELP!

I really don’t know what to do. My friend is suicidal and she’s at the point now where she doesn’t want to live. It isn’t even just that her life sucks, so there’s “no point in living”. It’s the fact that she said she’s always had this feeling, ever since she was a kid, that life isn’t for her. That she wasn’t meant to live, she was meant to die. I’ve stuck beside many friends before who have been contemplating suicide, but this is different… they have all had the same thing in common; they want to be happy but they feel they cant be so they thought that was the only way. But with her, shes given up on that hope now. She doesn’t even want to be happy anymore. She just wants to die now and have no feelings anymore. There isn’t a part of her that wants things to get better, cause she knows they’ll eventually just get bad again. She calls it “a vicious cycle”
I really don’t know what to do anymore and I’m so scared… Please help!!!!

Btw, we do not live in the same place, so therefore i cannot be right next to her to hold her hand through this. Also she does not have any family or friends where she lives. So thats not an option. Plus, I know in these kind of posts it comes up a lot that it’s teenage hormones… but my friend is in her late 20’s so that’s not it.

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Sir Cody † 59 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

Is she able to read this?

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Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 38 minutes after post)

She needs professional help. She is probably depressed. Strongly urge her to see a doctor.

Also what helped for me was having someone pray for me.

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moviemaniac32 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I think that an option would be to let your friend know that she is precious and cared for. I understand what you are feeling, as well as what she is feeling. I have (like many) been through that because of traumas in life, and I recently had a friend who killed herself in the summer. It is painful for everyone - What does your friend like to do for fun? What are her interests? Does she see a therapist? I would say to refer her to an adult who will not overreact, rather who will give her a safe place to be and to talk to her. That is all one can do, really. This situation is one of the most difficult ones, as there is not much control of the situation. I wish you luck, and please feel free to contact me - i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> should you have any questions. Good luck friend. And, thank you for seeking help for your friend. I love your desire to help.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 7 minutes after post)

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IDon'tEverQuit 194 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (10 hours, 20 minutes after post)

I’m sorry :( That’s awful…..she has nobody near by at all?

moviemaniac32 wrote:
I think that an option would be to let your friend know that she is precious and cared for. What does your friend like to do for fun? What are her interests? Does she see a therapist? I would say to refer her to an adult who will not overreact, rather who will give her a safe place to be and to talk to her. That is all one can do, really. This situation is one of the most difficult ones, as there is not much control of the situation.

I agree with this

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Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

talk to your parents and counselor. keep being there for your friend. ask your friend to go to a biblical church and open up to someone there, it could help her to find a new society in which she could rely on. take care ok. god bless

Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 16 hours after post)

Sorry I took so long to reply to this. No, she has noone around to help her. She is literally on her own. That is what scares me.
She has professional help. She sees a psychiatrist but they dont seem to do anything for her. She’s been to a few different people so it’s not only this one. She has no money to be checked into a rehab either… She’s using it all up on the psychiatrist. Honestly, she doesn’t do anything for fun… She’s just sitting at home all the time, doing nothing except thinking.

Cell 63 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

can she get a pet? That may help.

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*ALEX* 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 4 days after post)

suicide are bad my gf just get a new boyfriend and i feel this way like im goin too kill my self i hate this ****

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angel♥ 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks after post)

*ALEX*_/,,/_ wrote:
suicide are bad my gf just get a new boyfriend and i feel this way like im goin too kill my self i hate this ****

noooooo alex dont!!!! talk to me on msn about it k?

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*ALEX* 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 weeks after post)

angel♥ wrote:

*ALEX*_/,,/_ wrote:
suicide are bad my gf just get a new boyfriend and i feel this way like im goin too kill my self i hate this ****

noooooo alex dont!!!! talk to me on msn about it k?

im not gonna do it its just cuz i miss her she is the only one i want get kids with and i love her rally that suck last year she tell me not to kill my self and i didnt but this year shes not there

Help me with: im in big trouble a guy give me some drugs to sell…but i do the drugs cuz my gf left me and now i need some money i

angel♥ 13 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

*ALEX*_/,,/_ wrote:

angel♥ wrote:

*ALEX*_/,,/_ wrote:
suicide are bad my gf just get a new boyfriend and i feel this way like im goin too kill my self i hate this ****

noooooo alex dont!!!! talk to me on msn about it k?

im not gonna do it its just cuz i miss her she is the only one i want get kids with and i love her rally that suck last year she tell me not to kill my self and i didnt but this year shes not there

well i know its different, but since shes not here, i, as your friend am telling you not to.. if you ever feel like that, talk to me ok?! im always here for you, you know that!

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iamtheretolisten 44 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

i feel extremely depressed at the moment. Somtimes i do have an urget o hurt myself badly though not exactly a suicide!! What should I do? Is there someone I can talk to ??

*ALEX* 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

iamtheretolisten wrote:
i feel extremely depressed at the moment. Somtimes i do have an urget o hurt myself badly though not exactly a suicide!! What should I do? Is there someone I can talk to ??

yea me :O

(big hug ) i feel the same way
heres my msn if you want to talk (email removed)