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I find this a tad bit strange.

But a few months back Id’ have snapped out of pining for a guy for about three years.
I ended up getting caught in the middle and pairing him up with my best friend yadda yadda.
I’m quite over it.
This was 7 months back.
I moved met new people socialized and what not.
Now the people I’ve met… alright, we treat one another as though we’ve been together all our lives.
I’m hugged hello and I really am personally close with most of them.
The thing is they..especially the guys between them… I honestly feel like they’re just mere acquaintances not really friends per se but just…people I know.
I don’t know.

I guess what I’m trying to say is the feeling of loving someone seems so bloody alien to me right now, like I don’t think it’s feasibly possible for me to be..errr…enamored of someone like my first ..I guess crush’s the word.
Maybe it’s got nothing to do with anything.
I might be definitely over thinking it.

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Red-Coaxke offline Verified User (3 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (2 hours, 50 minutes after post)

It sounds like you have strong feelings for someone you are close to. Become closer to the person you have feelings for, like going to a movie, dinner, or a night on the town. Let the person know that you have a slight attraction to them or ask them out. It’s up to you how you play out this situation. Don’t let people persuade you from what you think is right. You obviously have strong feelings for someone and I hope it works out for you

Best Regards: Eric

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