Question for all those military people out there including spouses retired active duty I don’t care I need some sort of guidance.
My husband was due to ETS out of the military Aug 10th, also there was a waiver for stop loss ready to go in case they tried to stop loss him (They lost it resubmitted a new one now it’s bouncing between the company comander and the battalion commander on who is gonna sign first). He was given orders in july to start clearing which he did had everything good to go then poof on the day he was getting his bulldog stamp and his working DD-214 they revoke his orders. I was already in Ohio told to go by his chain of command with our daughter and all our household goods I left august 8th. So our situation currently is now it’s been several months (this all started way back in like june) my daughter has been in california for over a month now visiting family since there are no household goods here i don’t know anyone in Ohio so I came back to our place in GA. So far we know he’s not getting stop lossed, and he’s on rear d until he’s released but they could hold him until next year. He has no gear no badge no nothing he was just told to put his leave form on hold and that things will be straight in 30 days but i’ve sorta lost faith. I was told by a therapist on post to go see the CG… (went to see the therapist because I was ready to lose my **** mind) so I mean I don’t want to stir up anymore trouble since i’ve sorta made myself known but sorta been quiet you know the wallflower that jumps out now and again at you lol.
I mean I really want to know what my options are, my daughter can’t stay out in california for much longer, we can’t live without household goods for much longer and on top of that our bank card was cloned they overdrew our account and seeing as we have wells fargo it’s going to take almost a flippin month to get a new card and access to our money LOL!!!! So… any advice on the military crap would be so wonderful.
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