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Where do i go from here?

So the girl that i love has been showing interest in me more and more each day. She Is sitting closer to my friends table and my table. She keeps acting like she’s going to walk over here but always turns around and smiles at her friends nervously. She smile at me a lot and that’s obviously a hint. What do i do now? I thought maybe i should show her a sign that i like her. Maybe a little smile or glimpse at her in class might give her a hint. So i know she likes but maybe she thinks i don’t like her back…I think it’s my turn to make a move, but how?

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Braad offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

since classes just started maybe walk up and be like haha hey so what all classes you got this semester? hopefully ones that are more fun than mine haha..something like that just break the ice and start talking, get her name after and maybe a number? haha gl man

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Dracut, MA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

agreed, right now is the best time to do it. If you wait too long you’ll just over think things and never do it or she may lose interest. It’s best to do it now.

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Braad wrote:
since classes just started maybe walk up and be like haha hey so what all classes you got this semester? hopefully ones that are more fun than mine haha..something like that just break the ice and start talking, get her name after and maybe a number? haha gl man

Haha man i already know her name. School started about 5 weeks ago. Thanks i’ll try something like that though. When she passes my locker she looks my way and usually smiles, i know because i see her awesome white teeth :)

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

mar98 wrote:
agreed, right now is the best time to do it. If you wait too long you’ll just over think things and never do it or she may lose interest. It’s best to do it now.

Yeah i have some time because after lunch if you finish pretty early you have a long time out by the track. I’m not going to let myself lose her.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 hours, 56 minutes after post)

u alrdy love her?

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
u alrdy love her?

Um yeh. I just had a conversation with her, i found the time and just started talking about what were doing in class than it started going on to turtles, you know what i mean, she kept smiling at me a lot and laughed at some things i said. This girl is awesome, i really love her smile, Of course her AWESOME looks, and her personality, she’s defanitaly my type. I like shy girls because im shy myself usually. Of course i already love her, i’ve nailed step one and im going to do something different tomorrow. When i turn around she is usually looking at me. :) Isn’t that a sign?

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

a sign that she likes u.
love takes time.
never ever start a relationship with i love you.
itll end before u kno it

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
a sign that she likes u.
love takes time.
never ever start a relationship with i love you.
itll end before u kno it

Trust me i take things slow, im not saying that to her anytime soon :)

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

okay just warning u.
ur 15 right?

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
okay just warning u.
ur 15 right?

No im 14

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

omg lol u hav like light years to fall inlove.
im not saying shes not the one but ull date a trillon girls. especially since ur a nice guy

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
omg lol u hav like light years to fall inlove.
im not saying shes not the one but ull date a trillon girls. especially since ur a nice guy

Yeah im aware of that. Just got over another girl, found out she really wasn’t for me. This girl is the best, i really can relate with her. It’s only the beginning, so i won’t exactly call it love but it’s getting close to there.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

okay lol good luck!

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Thanks it helped

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

u welcome

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Hey good luck with those two guys.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

sideflip wrote:
Hey good luck with those two guys.

yes thank u i need it lol

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Lovestruck wrote:

sideflip wrote:
Hey good luck with those two guys.

yes thank u i need it lol

Ok haha, i’ll post something if it all goes good tomorrow.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day after post)

ok lol.i rlly wanna kno

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

Well today i caught her looking at me again. It’s driving me crazy! She sits far away from me and i can’t talk to her. She is always talking to people and sitting on the desk right in front of me before class. She kinda gives me glances. I really like her but still can’t get past the 2nd step.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 1 hour after post)

try harder stalk her lol jk

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 days, 20 hours after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
try harder stalk her lol jk

Haha i wouldn’t do that. Today we made eye contact ALOT in science. I made her laugh too. :)

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

omg ur obsessed lol
in a cute way tho

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
omg ur obsessed lol
in a cute way tho

Im not obsessed haha she was looking at me so i looked at her.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

look all u want uve got her hooked.
just rail her in lol. . .slowly

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
look all u want uve got her hooked.
just rail her in lol. . .slowly

Haha thanks that’s what im doing. I now sit across from her in science! :) REALLY AWESOME CHANCE! I’m lucky now i have a great chance to get to know her more. :D Im reallin her in, as you said…slowly.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

lol good

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
lol good

Oh this has nothing to do with this but you know how your looking for free music on your i-pod? Well Limewire isn’t a good choice. Your computer has a VERY high chance of getting viruses (They even said that on the news). I’ve heard that not all of the songs have good quality. Not to mention that it’s illegal.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

yeh i deleted it but nice lookin out thanx

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

Lovestruck wrote:
yeh i deleted it but nice lookin out thanx

Yeah once i got it but i deleted it right away. Just was making sure because limewire isn’t good. I may not like it but i just buy itunes gift cards and use it up on songs that i really like on itunes. When you download songs for free your stealing from people. yeah anyway sorry i was just makin sure.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

yeah

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

So what would the next step be?…

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

get her number

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

Ok i’ll talk to her a bit more and get her email than her number.

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sideflip offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

If all goes well on Monday i’ll be happy :)

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 2 hours after post)

ok lol

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