hate help: i dont know what to do anymore, everything seems to be getting to me, i cant do anything right. - Help.com

Where is all of this hopelessness coming from? Im sorry for you, i myself haven’t ever felt this way i’ve always been a happy person. What is it that your parents are making you do? Are they forcing something like religon on you? Im sorry to be such a jerk by asking all of these personal questions. Tomorrow is the day to turn your life around. It would do you good. How you ask? Forget your hopelessness. Think exactly WHY you feel this way. Think and let go of your bad lifestyle and step into the opposite side. Life only happens once and if you live it wrong you won’t ever be happy. Don’t give up on yourself. I know all of this stuff is a bit too much i just really wan’t to help you.

Life has positives and negatives.

When you experience something bad if you don’t see anything good, one good thing you will always get is good experience. You know what to do and not to do in certain occurances and become stronger as an individual. Things will probably be like this the rest of your life feeling bad at small things but don’t get discouraged by them. You see we are all surviving because we are imperfect and make mistakes. We do things to see what works best and follow up and grow as people. What you are experiencing is something that we all have but work as one whole as people to work better at. Each of us fall and get up to know what happened and are better aware of what we are up against.

What im trying to say is you made mistakes but that’s what makes you a human. We all learn from mistakes and grow becomming better. It’s a continuous process of trial and error. It’s hard but that’s life I guess. Think of this then, if we were already good at everything in life in the beginning, then what kind of life would we have, how would we work to achieve what we wanted, how would you enjoy life and what would you do if you mastered everything, something to think of.

Neutra wrote:
Life has positives and negatives.

When you experience something bad if you don’t see anything good, one good thing you will always get is good experience. You know what to do and not to do in certain occurances and become stronger as an individual. Things will probably be like this the rest of your life feeling bad at small things but don’t get discouraged by them. You see we are all surviving because we are imperfect and make mistakes. We do things to see what works best and follow up and grow as people. What you are experiencing is something that we all have but work as one whole as people to work better at. Each of us fall and get up to know what happened and are better aware of what we are up against.

What im trying to say is you made mistakes but that’s what makes you a human. We all learn from mistakes and grow becomming better. It’s a continuous process of trial and error. It’s hard but that’s life I guess. Think of this then, if we were already good at everything in life in the beginning, then what kind of life would we have, how would we work to achieve what we wanted, how would you enjoy life and what would you do if you mastered everything, something to think of.

Exactly. As humans we are afraid that people will judge us on our past. You can live on, why are we confused on Earth? What is there to be confused about? There are great things in life and bad things. You don’t have to have the bad things happen to you, and if you did already it is ok.

Do you have someone you can talk to?

Please don’t harm yourself. Things won’t always feel this way.