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Best Friend’s Boyfriend
Ok so about a month ago, my bestest best friend told me that she knew of this guy that apparantly
really liked me, and she said that she would get us two together. I agreed to meet him and see how it went.
The first time round she said he didnt wanna drive down to mine, which i acepted, because he lives a bit away from us anyway
The second time they both came to see me on my lunch break @ work, which went well. I went over to my mates that evening, and started going on about how much i liked what i saw, and was keen to get to know him.
The next thing i know my friend is gettin g stressy cuz he was replying to my texts immediatly and took a few minutes with hers.
FINALLY i get it out of her that she liked him too, and they had already slept with eachother a few times.
I didnt know what to do. She had a boyfriend, of which she “stole” from me too!!
She had cheated on her boyfriend, and lied to me, saying that he liked me and wanted to be with me. Not her.
BUT i let it all go, and said aslong as she was happy, and i didnt even know the guy.
SINCE then though, she has started going out with this new guy, but he told me last night that its me he wants to be with, and that the first time he met me he had doubts that hed chosen the right person, but seeing me again for the second time clarifyed that.
I really like him too, hes bloody amazin, but my best friend has been saying lately that he is “the one” and to be honest i think hes getting fed upwith her clingyness, and stressyness when he doesntr automatically text back….
im scared of losing my best friend! BUT at the same time….. she lied to me…
IM SO CONFUSED!
do i let him dump her, and see how it goes, or do i somehow convince him to stay with my best mate???
WHAT DO I DO?
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