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Guess what…

I don’t care!!!

Really, I don’t care… if help.com never changes its colour from that vile orange. I don’t care if we dont get a pictures section, or a private chat option, or a customisable profile page… if you want that… join facebook?

Not that I don’t believe help.com needs improvement, but I just feel its a bit sad that people feel the need to leave because they don’t like the look of the place anymore or because there are bugs. or the trolls are “out of control” I mean honestly… So What?????

I’m grateful for the friends i’ve met here that have changed my life for the better forever, and there is no other website quite like this - anywhere. And for that I am grateful and glad help.com is staying the way it is.

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

*waits for the first slap in the face*

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advice25 offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

HUGZ!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

I agree with you, it has changed alot but then we wouldn’t be who we are now without it :D

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 358 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

That was a fast removal, who was it and what they say? O_O

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Ditzy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 40 Add Friend #
Ventura, CA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Hi5’s Raver! Agreed Chicky. This place ain’t dead. Just mass-hysteria and rumors.

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Stoli offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I really don’t notice all the bad change. First thing I think when I sign in here is “How are my friends? Who can I help?”… lol I’m not thinking about the color of the boarder… I don’t really even notice many trolls, I just look over them like people should.

Oh well, to each their own. If you want to come here and stare at the bored as you gripe about a troll or two, good for you, leave. The people that are here for friends and help will stay.

That’s just my opinion.

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

The people that have left…. well fair enough. But its the people that stay that make this place, we can’t just think “Right, we’ve got some awesome people here now. Lets shut up shop so no one else can come in”

I love what we have here, always have… Its great to moan. I am a big fan of moaning, but theres no need to be petty. I think its lovely having you as a mod, and dani (is/was/not sure whats going on at the min) and not sure who else is doing it, but everything seems in hand to me. Including the quick removal hehe.x

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fla offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 14 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

yeh raver! you tell em

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 358 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

NO the place isn’t fine but I ain’t leaving because a few things are broken, I am gonna complaine about it being broken though :D

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 130 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

Sometimes you just have to say “f**k it!” And keep on going! Life goes on!

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 358 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Sometimes you just have to say “f**k it!” And keep on going! Life goes on!

Agree :D

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

Hell yah!

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 Add Friend #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

I am going down with the ship. I’m not leaving.

I do miss the way the replies used to work but I am still happy here.

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 17 minutes after post)

How did replies used to work?

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 358 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 25 minutes after post)

♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
How did replies used to work?

You never had to refresh to see who replied after you, with the way it is now you have to refresh to see any new replies and often because of this way you say the same thing as someone else replyng while you are typing O_O

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 Add Friend #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 31 minutes after post)

♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
How did replies used to work?

You did not have to refresh to see the replies. You could see the replies as they came in. You did not have to continually refresh the page.

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 Add Friend #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 33 minutes after post)

~LazyDaze~ wrote:

♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
How did replies used to work?

You never had to refresh to see who replied after you, with the way it is now you have to refresh to see any new replies and often because of this way you say the same thing as someone else replyng while you are typing O_O

Like we just did.

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The Clue offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Minot, ND, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Well said. It still works for me and I don’t mind having to click a button or two, to get it to do what I want. So I doubt that you will get that slap in the face :-) although I bet you get a pat in another place. My bad LOL!!!!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

babacup wrote:

~LazyDaze~ wrote:
♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
How did replies used to work?

You never had to refresh to see who replied after you, with the way it is now you have to refresh to see any new replies and often because of this way you say the same thing as someone else replyng while you are typing O_O

Like we just did.

LOL aye :D

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♥Rαvєr♥ offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 105 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 48 minutes after post)

well… I never even realised. I mean I’ve noticed it a couple of times but I thought that was just because it f00kt up a few times maybe? I usually write something and go onto another post and wait for the notification anyway…lol!

The Clue wrote:
Well said. It still works for me and I don’t mind having to click a button or two, to get it to do what I want. So I doubt that you will get that slap in the face :-) although I bet you get a pat in another place. My bad LOL!!!!

LMAO… thank you for the laugh haha.

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❀❁✿❁❀ offline Verified User (10 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 50 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Well said that lass.
I agree. *slaps trolls in the face instead*

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 39 minutes after post)

♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
The people that have left…. well fair enough. But its the people that stay that make this placex

Right you are. I think the frustrating thing is knowing that this place has so much potential if only the owners would put forth some effort.

♥Rαvєr♥ wrote:
Its great to moan. I am a big fan of moaning.x

rofl thank you Raver. Will you be posting the video soon? ;)

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 hours, 42 minutes after post)

:o

LMAO

when did this become a pervy post… haha. I love you guys you do make me laugh.

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The Clue offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Minot, ND, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 20 minutes after post)

LOL come on now, you didnt think that we would pick up on that moaning thing. This post was heading there right from the begining. Thats why we all stick around, to show our pervy side every now and then. (Whoop there it is) LMAO!!!!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Yeah I want to slap that face BAMMMMM!!!! OUCH… felt good on this side, how ’bout you Raver? So Helpy needs a few tweeks from the geeks but I swear once they come in to “help” they will f it up. Been there done that.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days after post)

lmao.

Well I left some not so friendly messages to so called admin accounts… there are rumours one of them has been comprimised. ooooo. Bored already.. lol.

I think I should be admin. I can make the place look all nice and spangly, give people random hearts in their name… and put a public “do not use verbs around the clue” sign up hehe

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The Clue offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Minot, ND, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 1 hour after post)

I like verbs. As for that moaning thing all you have to do is ask and I’m sure that someone would step up and give you a hand. :-) LOL

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

:o

tut. Being rude again lol!!

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The Clue offline Verified User (4 years) Long Term User Shouts: 16 Add Friend #
Minot, ND, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 3 hours after post)

Not being rude :-) just willing to help :-) lol

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 days, 4 hours after post)

lol, not the nasty kind of rude of course!!!

I’m sure your more than willing lol

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 days, 11 hours after post)

:)

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Midvale, UT, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 days, 21 hours after post)

You know, yes, it use to be so much better, but I come and see who’s posting, what I can do for help, I chuckle at some things, I see what people are doing that I do know and are still here, and my life goes on and I go elsewhere. I live my life and I’m not a controller. It is too bad, it’s not cared for more carefully, but I feel no need to angst about it or complain. I ignore troll idiots, and yeah sometimes they break in and ruin something, but man, ya know, they just don’t sink my ship. I’d rather just roll with what is available to me and drive on! I got things to do and explore and see ya know? Just can’t put the time into angsting over it. Good post Raver, thanks for the invite, not on as much as I use to be, more so in the winter when I’m snowed in up here.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Well in that case I look forward to the snow!

You know the only thing I miss is all the old people that used to be on here. Its a shame to not see them around so much :(

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Midvale, UT, US | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Read it and awesome makelove,

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

I’ve not read it, but i’m not a big fan of that ‘type’ of sci fi. I’m more into conspiracy type books… terrible I know :p

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

oh stuff like the da vinci code etc

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Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Well i>I /i> like the orange :)

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Gamla Stan, 26, SE | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Wow, you can even use the html I tags now?

>:|

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

Nope :(

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

i>You can still use HTML Tags I think… /i>
I don’t know about [sub] and such, but [i] works, or it should… don’t remember much else… I was only doing web design at school last term lol

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

nope, s’all disabled me dears!

:(

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

wow… worked in preview… that’s rather sly and cunning of them…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

tis! but unfortunately we only have each other to care for… each other!

CBS don’t give a rats a$$ bout us anymore :(

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

eh, it’s free, so, we can’t complain all that much. (But we will anyway :D)
Unless someone wants to start a forum site… I can’t be bothered writing that much code though…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

There is a couple already started I believe, but not in the same format as help.com

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