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Alright so…

I’ve basically moved to the west and this is actually significant because I feel traditions and other stuff differ quite a bit from what I’m used to back home.
Just started university so I’ve got this guy friend (Of 3 days mind you) who always tries to invite me to his dorm room ,right?
So.
Does that mean he just wants to shtup me??
:1
I used to crash at my guyfriends house whenever I felt like it back home.

I’m dense,slow, whatever.
Just need a clear answer from anyone who might by chance be reading this.

It’s a pity though if that’s true..he seemed like such a sweet-hearted dork.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Maybe he just wants to be your friend. However, I think three days of knowing him is too soon to go to his dorm room. Get to know him first for a month and maybe you will know what his true intentions might be.

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Well he’s pretty persistent..and…clingy.
Which is really odd because I’ve only just met him.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 158 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Clingy? He just wants to shag you. Tell him like this, “listen, I just met you and you are insisting that I go to your dorm room. What are your intentions?” That will be a curve ball and if he stutters when he answers, he will stop being clingy. Don’t give in.

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

Alright.
Thanks!

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