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did i pick the wrong guy?

i was in between two guys a week ago and i finally chose one because i like him more. so i chose him but he like hasnt texted or called in four days am i obssesed or did i chooe the wrong guy?

btw: i am single and they dont kno about eachother, ive been on dates with both of them. i just chose the one i like more but hes ignoring me and the other guy is the one calling and texting me all the time. not that i dont like thta cuz i lke him too and hes rlly cool but i want the other guy.

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

Girls don’t want the guy who seems too easy. They want the guy who seems busy and confident and important and attractive to other girls.

Works the same for guys. The guy who isn’t getting your attention wants you more. The guy who can easily get your attention has lost interest.

Sounds like you “picked” too soon from guys who don’t want the same thing you do.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

im so confused idk what to do.

im not texting or calling either of them if they wanna hang or talk there gonna have to do it. i just un chose then the ball is back in play lol

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (33 minutes after post)

Find someone who (a) you are attracted to; and (b) who is attracted to you. Not much point in chasing guys who aren’t interested or ignoring guys who are chasing you like a puppy. It’s all about compatibility.

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TinyDancer :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

okay no chasing guys and cut the leash off the puppy

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