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I’m 24, a bump on a log and just found out i’m pregnant.

How do I find myself?

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Single or married?

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

not married but have been with the guy for over a year.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Does he know?

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

yes

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Have you and him discussed it?

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

What do you want to do? What route do you want to go? Abortion, adoption, keeping it, what?

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AriLola offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

You seem old enough to be mature about it? No? I suppose it all depends really on whether you can provide it with it’s needs? If not there’s always adoption / fostering etc.

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

For what is worth, I noticed an undertone of sadness in your post and replies. Are you gonna be OK?

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2 months, 4 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

we are going to keep it, we dont agree with abortion and we dont think we could live with adoption. i am sad, i just dont know where i am going or where i want to be and now im even more confused

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

lol,,,welcome to life anon
throw the tv out the window
thats the first step to you finding reality
http://cgi.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?…
heres a great CHEAP way to get out and find nature
2 boats 4 oars and picknic stuff
less than 100 bucks and you got the boats & oars till they need to be replaced
get some tennis rackets and learn to play
a few bikes and hit the trails in the forest with the new dady
( get the wide comfy seats or you will wish you did)
stop looking out at life
get out there sit down in it and open your mind to desire,,you now have a family to experiance it with
congradulations

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

Now you have to plan for that baby and how you’re gonna bring that little life into this world to have the best life that it can have.

Congratulations?

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AriLola offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

There is never really a right time for kids, ey? Lol
Ah, I’ll put it off ’til next year. :D

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Anonymous #
2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

thanks, it is so true

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littlenick online Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 16 minutes after post)

You’re gonna be all right. Good luck! :)

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AriLola offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 4 weeks ago (3 hours, 25 minutes after post)

And it’s exciting too! I think congrat’s are in order!! You’re not adopting or aborting. So. Congratulations! And I hope ya have a healthy little tyke :)

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