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I am so lost at this moment in time, not sure what to feel anymore.

Always thought I can handle anything coming my way, but relationship has proved that i am weak. Graduate a year ago, land on a perfect job. As the same time, dating this girl that I thought I have met the person of my life time. We been together for 2 yrs, planning on our wedding next spring. Yesterday went to her place, saw this guy walking out her bedroom. She told me that he is a son of her mom best friend, and he more like a cousin to her. He visit and stay for a few day. Since she only has one bedroom at her place so she let him sleep in her bed while she sleep on the sofa outside. So I hang around few minute, talking really friendly with them both and then I left. As I walk out of the apartment, my heart felt so hurt. I think that she cheating on me. Should I confront her and questioning or just end the relationship silently? I felt that all those promise we have together seem to mean nothing. There so many time, girl asking me out, I always reject cause I keep promise I made for her, but I guess I am just an idiot.

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

You’re not an idiot. Talk to her about it. Ask her if anything went on between them. Let her know that it hurt you to see that.

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AriLola offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Don’t trust women when it comes to things like this. Really we’ll say anything not to hurt you.

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fla offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 19 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

**** i feel your pain. This is why you gotta put yourself first. Not your girl, not your bestfriend, maybe your kids and family but definitely not your girl.

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artic offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Brooklyn, NY, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

maybe i should just end the relationship silently. What i don’t understand is that why can’t she just tell me straigth forward. I am the type of guy will just walk away without giving any problem. I even told her in the begining when we just start out, that if she ever inlove with another person just let me know. I will leave her and wish her with the best.

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AriLola offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 29 minutes after post)

You know maybe she loves you but isn’t in love with you

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