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hey nothing worth having in life is just handed to you. You gotta work at it am I right? I have the same issue and it all comes back to my own insecurities. Learn to rationalize your emotions and that your imagination is really just, well your imagination and nothing more.

you know i have a long distance relationship and i never ever worry about him cheating…why? because i trust him.

You’ve just got to trust him and stop worrying yourself crazy…if you can’t trust him then you’ll never work out.

kitt e wrote:

fla wrote:
hey nothing worth having in life is just handed to you. You gotta work at it am I right? I have the same issue and it all comes back to my own insecurities. Learn to rationalize your emotions and that your imagination is really just, well your imagination and nothing more.

Yeah. I usually tell myself that and feel better. I don’t mind working hard at this…sometimes I have off days though. That’s when I just wish it could hurry up & be normal. I could come home from a rough day and have him there to swoop me up in a bear hug & make me laugh again.

I understand. It’s sooo crazy hard sometimes…but in the end it’s worth it :)

if you look anything like your icon you have nothing to worry about.

kitt e wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

kitt e wrote:

fla wrote:
hey nothing worth having in life is just handed to you. You gotta work at it am I right? I have the same issue and it all comes back to my own insecurities. Learn to rationalize your emotions and that your imagination is really just, well your imagination and nothing more.

Yeah. I usually tell myself that and feel better. I don’t mind working hard at this…sometimes I have off days though. That’s when I just wish it could hurry up & be normal. I could come home from a rough day and have him there to swoop me up in a bear hug & make me laugh again.

I understand. It’s sooo crazy hard sometimes…but in the end it’s worth it :)

:) Thank you for understanding! It is worth it when we get to visit and I know it’ll be in the end. If a relationship can stand strong through distance like this, I think it would be impossible to break.

excatly. distance will make you soo strong :)

If i were you i get myself a second Boyfriend ..Just in Case!!! .One never acts without a second opinion….

kitt e wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
if you look anything like your icon you have nothing to worry about.

haha! Actually, I appreciate that =) That’s why I picked this avatar.

Barbyman wrote:
If i were you i get myself a second Boyfriend ..Just in Case!!! .One never acts without a second opinion….

Don’t be silly…one is enough trouble! (j/k!)

i was quite serious of coarse.
If your man loves you.He will constantly think of you.
He will dream of you.
If he sees a cute girl then good.
But he knows he will return to “His love”
That image or icon is fixed in his brain.
So be it.

kitt e wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:

kitt e wrote:

spiratec9 wrote:
if you look anything like your icon you have nothing to worry about.

haha! Actually, I appreciate that =) That’s why I picked this avatar.

Barbyman wrote:
If i were you i get myself a second Boyfriend ..Just in Case!!! .One never acts without a second opinion….

Don’t be silly…one is enough trouble! (j/k!)

i was quite serious of coarse.
If your man loves you.He will constantly think of you.
He will dream of you.
If he sees a cute girl then good.
But he knows he will return to “His love”
That image or icon is fixed in his brain.
So be it.

Thank you for those words, you seem very wise.

Thank you.
Your sweet.

if its a strong relationship
and if ur compassionate about each other
ask urself why ur worrying?
the distance is nothing its about the climb
if u get what i mean