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Allright guys!

I don’t know if you care, but I did somthing really stupid the yesterday. I’ve kissed a friend, not a girlfriend, a friend… I know this is gonna cause both of us problems! I’m single, she’s single, but it’s still gonna be incredibly problematic… those anybody understand this? Could you guys help?

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

So u r not into her???

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Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

I’m totally into her, and she is totally into me… but that’s not the problem you see

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SilverVeggieMoon offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Try gentling explaining to her you don’t want to ruin the friendship and you’re sorry that you risked it.
That’s what happened to me. It stung, but I got over it and we’re still friends.

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Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

SilverVeggieMoon wrote:
Try gentling explaining to her you don’t want to ruin the friendship and you’re sorry that you risked it.
That’s what happened to me. It stung, but I got over it and we’re still friends.

Oh darn it that would be nice!… i forgot to tell you guys, it’s is not the first time it has happend =S

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SilverVeggieMoon offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

So… same advice. Explain that you’re sorry, but you want to be friends and you refuse to risk the friendship by continuing.

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
I’m totally into her, and she is totally into me… but that’s not the problem you see

so whats the problem???
Most relationships that last stem from friendships

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Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

ameliaearthlin wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I’m totally into her, and she is totally into me… but that’s not the problem you see

so whats the problem???
Most relationships that last stem from friendships

I guess… It’s more complex than just liking eachother?

We allready told each other that we shouldn’t act like something that we are not, and we are not boyfriend and girlfriend. But that was before this kind of thing happend again. I just so… I feel really stupid.

I’m sure I’m starting to sound crazy…. crap!

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SilverVeggieMoon offline Verified User (2 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

You shouldn’t act like something you’re not…
So become boyfriend and girlfriend, or don’t and stop kissing.

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

you both fear rejection from the other if u put yourself ‘out there’..
btw people do change their minds…
u not crazy ….btw

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Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

Can I please ask you a question that has nothing to do with anything?

Why are you guys helping me?

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

cause I can… no reason apart from that..

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Anonymous #
2 months, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

=)

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ameliaearthlin offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

I am now flatting with my best friend btw. he is single as am I.
We have kissed but it didnt go anywhere after that… but we are still friends.

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