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I’d like some advice.

My boyfriend and I broke up last week and we’re trying to be friends right now and we’re thinking we want to get back together in a couple of months. It was a mutual break, but the main reason was because I didnt want to have the stress of fighting on my mind all the time. Bow I feel even worse and I keep thinking about him even more than before. The worst thing to have happened when I finally started to kind of feel a little better, he kissed me today when we were playing around, I guess he really wanted to. I felt really happy but then sad at the same time because it brought back memories that I didnt want to think about because I wanted to start to get over him because I know we cant be together for a while. What do I do about this, how do I slightly get over him? Its going to be impossible to get completely over him, but I cant think of us as being a couple anymore, so I dont know what to do.

Also my household is like hell. My mom is so stressed out about doing everything for everyone and doesnt get anything for herself, so she is constantly complaining about everything and its my parent’s anniversary today and I feel bad for my dad because he doesnt know what to do with her ******** and all. I feel so negative because my enviornment nowadays is o negative. How do I become positive again???

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carolfou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Hello, first off get your home life into order. That is the most important. What state is your bedroom in? crazy thing to ask - maybe - but if you are in orderyourself, lots of other things fall into order as well. Once you have that under control, you can move outside the room and into other areas. Clean the car for your folks, takeyour mind off your boyfriend, seems like he is making the confusion worse. Focus, focus focus - on the main thing - your family and you.

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