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I have an older brother. My dad recently cheated on my mother, and they are trying to work it out. But every night they fight continuosly. I canot take it any longer. My friends.. well they aren’t the best. I have only one true best friend which is my brothers girlfriend. Shes alwayss there for me. But I feel that my life really sucks.. I need help, how do i get through this!?

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

sounds like a really hard time for you, i know its not easy but things will get better. i dont have many true friends either, i know how difficult it is with only one good friend. try to get out of the house when they fight and do something you love, or maybe play some music you like, maybe even talk to them about their fighting, tell them how it makes you feel. even though it is their relationship and they do need to work it out, they should still consider who else their fighting is hurting. it can’t be easy, but in the end it will be alright. wish i could be more help, good luck, i hope things work out for both you and your parents. (maybe even go talk to a professional, if you start to feel really down, they really can help alot)

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purinc offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

try getting some hobbies and/or create a few simple goals to accomplshed..that’s helped me before.

you can also try making new/better friends, talk to your parents and your brother or maybe even your school counsellor if you need more help

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agaperoot offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 321 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (57 minutes after post)

Heavy stuff to deal with on your shoulders and you are young still.
First of all you should not be in the middle of it, do not let them pull u into there battles. Being elsewhere is very helpful in these kind of situations,go to a place where it is peaceful like the ocean or a lake or somewhere natural. You can read or draw or pray to God, even writing it out on paper helps. It will be really rough on all of your family for a while but one day the sun will shine on your face again and you can start to heal inside.I hope that you will find some place where you will have peace again until you are old enough to move out on your own.
Blessings to you :)

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jms-hallet offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

dude. seriously i am going through the same sort of thing. my mum is constantly shouting and throwing things at me. talk to someone about this. im ussually online if you want to talk to me. keep safe little dude.

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carolfou offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Hello. Getyour own life in order and all other things will fall into order as well. Help where you can but stay cool yourself. Be thankful for what you do have. Blessings are coming your way …

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