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tell him when he comes talk in person

Yep. It’s better to wait until you’re face to face with him. Come on though. He’s messin’ around. If I had have been in a situation like that I would have snapped already!

i’ve been in a similiar position myself,my ex,i still love her loads,even though it was long distance,and i haven’t stopped at the same time as being with my recent girlfriend.i convinced myself i hadn’t.you need to talk to him about how he feels about this girl so that you have some clarification that he doesn’t still care about her.it will give you piece of mind.

i’d say quicker the better,you want the peace of mind,if you don’t want it playing on your mind cos it’ll just irk you,disturb you from your daily life.

Yeah answers confuse me more lol

And the answers will always scare you cos it might be the answer your not looking for

Saying it will be fine is not seeing your potential relationship realistically. Having just met in person, you’re still building a more realistic relationship which is quite different from an online relationship.

You have the right to ask him where you stand in his life now, after having met in person. I would tell him now that, when he visits, you and him need to talk about some things. It would be best to talk about these things in person rather than through e-mails or phone calls.

And I wouldn’t say just “dump him” since you’ve only just moved into the realm of a real relationship. Internet/online relationships are not the same as one pursued in real life, and if this is a long distance relationship, thats another factor to add in that might make this relationship harder than one with a guy who lives near you. Trust, strong trust, is what will make any relationship work, and if you don’t quite have that in you now to him then this may be an issue you need to confront inside yourself and ask yourself if you “feel” you can totally trust him when not together.

I agree with Mradams above that the answers you desire may not be the answers you get from this guy. Again, this is a part of any potential relationship in its early stages as 2 people get to know one another and build a relationship together.

Good luck. I hope this will work out for you, but if not, I do hope you know inside of you that you have the strength to grow past this and be happy. Take care.

Dear Elexa.

I think you remember me. can you remember what I wrote to you in your previous post?

Perhaps I’m wrong, but I advice you to be cautious in your next meeting with him.

As mention before, If a person treully loves you and respect you.
He won’t ever toy with your feelings.

In any event wish you good luck