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I haven’t heard from my friend in a while

This guy isn’t great for replying to text messages, but he’s always made the effort with me, especially since we got back in touch two years ago. I texted him about three weeks ago and he never replied. Then I texted him again this week and again nothing. Today and yesterday, I texted him, admitting that I was worried and still no reply. I know he’s alive and well because I saw him in his work last Saturday (he only works that day), but the shop was busy so I didn’t go in. I decided to do so today, but a co-worker told me he was on his lunch. I hoped that maybe he would hear of my enquiry and get back to me, but still nothing. He’s not on Bebo, Facebook, MySpace or Twitter, and I don’t have his new email address. I don’t want to start calling his house. I’m just starting to wonder if he’s angry at me, even though I have no idea what I could’ve done.

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eltonjohnabl offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

as you said, he’s not great at replying texts, so thats probably it rofl.

go see him at work.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

If he’s OK, and you know that. Just wait until he replies to you.

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~LazyDaze~ offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 241 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
If he’s OK, and you know that. Just wait until he replies to you.

Yeah I agree unless you know of a reason why he may be angry..?

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Whatsername17 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (13 hours, 37 minutes after post)

~LazyDaze~ wrote:

littlenick wrote:
If he’s OK, and you know that. Just wait until he replies to you.

Yeah I agree unless you know of a reason why he may be angry..?

Nope, I have no idea.

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Kailyn-and-Po121 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks ago (2 months after post)

Guys can be weird like that sometimes, or he’s just too busy for the internet and his phone bill might be not payed for yet that he’s sooo busy, but don’t worry I just think he’s busy if he’s still alive out there. Hope this helped!
~Kailyn

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