Love help: my ex girlfriend has texted me a couple times this week. - Help.com

dude you’re not imagining it: your ex still wants you -and- she is playing games -and- she is confused… there is no reason for her to contact you otherwise (divorce/kids/money)…

all this is happening because she just realized that she messed up a good thing (too bad - so sad - for her)…

and her guilt is her problem, not yours — and techincally she has nothing to feel guilty about if she was being honest in not wanting to continue the relationship with you — otherwise she is totally playing games…

just take it as a compliment that she still wants ur a$$…

play-on playa :)

oh i almost forgot…

if you really want to annoy her they way she is annoying you: just be nice to her — because that will show her that her little games (texting, stalking) don’t work and that she has no effect on you anymore…

that’ll teach her ;)

oops one more point and that’s it for me i swear…

and don’t forget to mention before you end a conversation with her (either in person, on phone or via email) that you ‘have to go now because ur girlfriend is picking you up and you got to go get ready’…

stuff like that will annoy her endlessly — i’m a girl, trust me — i know about these things… :) good luck

If you don’t want her back in your life……for sure……….then why do you care

What her intentions are?? you are either going to completely move on or you still have some lingering feelings for her……..like ambers still smoking in the fireplace, the next morning………..completely extinguish them or they could rekindle the fire.

I’m currently in this kind of problem with my ex boyfriend except I’m in your ex girlfriends shoes.

We dated for a year and it ended badly. He even told me that “our relationship was perfect but we made a few mistakes and messed it up.” He became a tool and a week after we had broken up he fooled around with another girl. I told him i need months away from him and maybe by the end of it I will be able to be his friend. He came to me a couple weeks after that, and he wanted to talk to me. I couldn’t do it. I couldn’t talk to him because deep down I knew that I was still in love with him.

Ever since the breakup I couldn’t eat. My sadness controlled my life. I tried to get over him but it hasn’t happened. Just recently I thought that I was fully over and done missing him but when we reunited the same feelings came back to me. I cant eat again. I just want it to be over.

The truth is that I don’t know if I will ever stop missing him. He is with someone else now and it kills me to think that he might love her the way he used to love me. I hope he doesn’t think I’m trying to play games with him because just recently we have started talking again. I don’t want to interfere with what he has with his girlfriend but I want him to know the truth. I just don’t want to come off as desperate because if I do…he will never want me back. I think that he might think that I’m talking to him again because he is with someone else now…but that really isn’t the case.