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If your gf (gf=Girl Friend) tells you to leave her alone, does it mean she wants to break up with you?

Does it mean she is just annoyed…she wasn’t taking my calls because she was “busy”…then when i called the third time between like 1-2 hours she like yelled “leave me alone”, and hanged up on me. She told me she was getting annoyed a while ago…
Just like a week ago she said she wants to get engaged with me…
I’m too needy…she use to like it, now she doesn’t like it. It’s hard for me to give her normal attention…it’s either like too much, or none when she says stuff like I’m too needy or just gets me upset. I’m thinking of ignoring her…she might miss me then.

I talk to her everyday…when she’s with people I’m ignored…when she’s alone with me she makes me feel soo good.

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

well… thats a tough one…
some girls jsut need a little breathing space.
just give her a few days.

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Give her some time then when she cools down talk to her about it. . . tell her how you feel.

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

okay, I now know I should give her some time. What should I say to her?

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quizzie offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Longwood, FL, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

you should say hey we need to talk. and you need to tell her how she is making you feel.

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Exactly.

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

I tell her how I feel a lot, I make her feel like she’s the one that makes me feel down…then that brings her down…or she just doesn’t care the odd time because she is busy. When in reality she’s one of the few people that make me happy.

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Blah, I tell her she is the one the makes me happy…I stress it when I say it. I’m just going to give it some time, and think of something to say. Thanks for the help, I always second guess myself and need someone else to like umm “approve” what I’m thinking lol. Thanks byes

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

You’re welcome. Good luck!

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