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What do you do if a girl ignores your texts, but only sometimes?

Usually she will respond only if she was the one who started the conversation in the first place. I can’t make heads or tails of it. It’s not like I text her more than once a day or so, either. Should I just stop doing it altogether for a while?

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imafrea offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

that means she only wants to talk to you when shes bored, try not texting her, see if she txts you first. if not, then talk to her about itttttttttt
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LoveforChrist offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yeah do what she’s doing. If she asks a question wait for a long time to reply. It won’t hurt her it’ll just be good for you to do. It’ll make her wonder.

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fla offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (11 minutes after post)

it just means ur way too into her and shes not nearly as into u.

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LoveforChrist offline Verified User (3 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (12 minutes after post)

Maybe your texting too much. You should give her some space, that’s kinda what i mean.

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3 years, 8 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Maybe she really likes you and she is trying to play hard to get on purpose. I know a lot of people that do this and the more you text..the better they will feel about themselves. Are you sure too that you haven’t done the same thing to her before and she felt threatened?

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nicholeparshal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (37 minutes after post)

If u stop texting her all together she WILL text u to see whats up. When she does tell her that since she hasnt been answering you u thought she didnt want to talk to u. THIS WILL WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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fla offline Verified User (4 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 8 months ago (47 minutes after post)

Dont play games

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ben_2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 months after post)

this is very tricky as there can be many factors. It might just be that she is playing hard to get but wants you to text her more to make her feel that bit more comfortable. if you have both been texting constantly then it stops all of a sudden,it may be that she wants some space to do other things just to get out of the routine of texting you.. generally is not a good route as it just ends up in no contact at all. main point is try not to play games as it only leads to a thinking into things far too much. does sound hard but say whats on your mind.

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frombadtogoo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years, 1 month ago (1 year, 6 months after post)

hahas had the same problem =)
now so i just silent my phone and throw it in my room just don’t f**king care
it helps alot trust me =)

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robviking7 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 years ago (1 year, 8 months after post)

It means you need to stop being a WUSS. If you are worrying about a woman, you are toast. Be the man, stay in charge, and if she ignores you, then move on.

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jeene78 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 5 months ago (2 years, 3 months after post)

i hav been in a situation where the girl i love, broke up with her x like 7 months ago. but i like loved her for very long time. i have told her few months back of my feelings again .. trust me its been ups and downs like one day shes all happy texting bk and the next day her mood swings and just wudnt text me ..
its like shes doing what she feels like. for me its like shes trying to take control over me and wants to keep it that way ..
but now i have stopped for a while responding her and realise that she texting me more oftenly then i use to do to her ..
its seems to be working lads.. if you want control over a women, wait till she texts you..

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