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I have a couple big questions that I need answerred.

Can u help me?? First off, I have always been against homosexuals. I have hated them for being different. But now I’m…. idk… I’m….. I… think I might be bi. I’ve always been straight and have always loved being with girls, but I have had an experience with another guy and now I want more from guys. I think some guys are soo hot. I want to be with them sooo bad. So… am I bi or is it a phase thing??

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MyNameIS_CharloTTe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (8 minutes after post)

I guess its just a phase, but I don’t know its up to you.

Its either a phase going on for like a month or less, or something you live with ur life… doesn’t really matter bcuz you are wat u are

ha ha that sounded so sappy.

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nickolei88 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah… but I don’l know. I’ve don’t know. Should I try and be w another guy to see if it’s what I actually feel or should I just push the feelings away???? I’ve been having these feelings for the past couple of months tho…

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chrisfox offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Depends, I am going through the same thing… Yes I am a male, and I don’t understand it.

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13inke offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

There is a theory that God’s biggest joke is inventing 9 different sexes and telling us there are only two. Don’t be in a rush to put yourself in a box. Feelings are feelings.

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nickolei88 offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

so what do I do then??

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jms-hallet offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 40 minutes after post)

nickolei88 wrote:
so what do I do then??

my advice would be to wait and see where your feelings take you.
if you walk through the streets and start to involantarily think hmm that guys quite nice you are more than likely bi.
it may be a phase if you are a teenager it is more likely, dont come out to anyone just yet.
give it about a year and if you are still having these feelings between men i would come out. its nothing to be scared of and youu shouldnt be brainwashed by people saying its wrong.
best wishes.

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dorky offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 8 minutes after post)

It might be just a phase your going through, many people go through a phase wondering if they are gay lesbian or bisexual. But in the end I think you should follow your intuition and your heart because there’s nothing wrong with being bisexual, you should do it the way you feel happy and live your life the way you want! just follow your heart and see what comes or does not come :) good luck

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