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my best friend is very upset at the moment. she is boyfriend and girlfriend with one of my guy friends. Our friendship group (of girls) have been quite pissed off at her for spending to much time with him, even though when we are sitting down he comes up and sits down to, which isnt her fault and she cant tell him to go away.

i kno the saying is “dont lose friends over a boy” but its been 5 months and our friends have yet not accepted it. they were very mad at her and said “you hang around the boys more then us” but if they really wanted to, they can come and sit down aswell. but they dont !!! i dont really think they like her boyfriend , but he a very kind person.

so whats the problem ?? if you can help

HELP !

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zilverknight offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 42 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 41 minutes after post)

Nice friends she got there. Just leave her alone with her bf. Your friends need to stop being jealous about it and support her. That is what true friends would do. If they have a good thing going support them and not break them. As it seems your friends is doing that.

There too many woman in groups who are bitter. When their friend comes out of the circle. So they can be sick and miserable with them. Break the cycle!

Check this movie The Diary of a tired black man. It applies to all races.

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dorky offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

I thik people tend to act jealous and show it this way… I’ve been through it myself even though I really did not abandon my friends. It’s only human but it sounds like her friends are not real friends because If you are really happy for one of your friends that would be the last thing to do! Luckily she has you , who accepts the situation, and if majority does not, just give the right example :)
good luck

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