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i am in a relationship that i’m not sure about,i met

this girl a long time ago,but we were just friends.then i moved and we werent in contact for some time,3 years ago i decided to call her.we chatted for a long time and after that started calling each other more often.i begun to develop feelings for her and made my emotions known to her.she told me about her last relationship,how the dude never appreciated her,she was really hurt.i tried my best to make her get over her hurt,i kept in touch.things were going smooth,but the only problem was the distance between us.so i had to travel down to be with her.i was there for two weeks then came back.we still continued keeping in touch.last month i had to travel down again and i was there for three weeks i tried my best to be with her,but this time i couldnt spend enough time with her cos she was always busy..had to run errands and stuff.when i complained it was like i wasnt understanding.i threw a question at her,asked her if the distance was getting at her and she was like “no” she was cool.that i was just getting paranoid.at some point i was sure she was seeing someone else.and i told her my mind cos i was angry..she called me that night crying that i dont trust her,she loves me.i am confused because she took me to meet her parents,i had lunch with her familly and they all seem like nice people.her mum even calls me to find out if we have problems,but it all boils down to the fact that i dont think she shows me the type of love i show her,she rarely calls like i do.when i complain she’s like.oh she had a very long day.she’s sorry she didnt call,she desperately wants to get married and tells me about it all the time,that she’s ready when i am.i really want to get married to her but i’m not ready yet.i love her dont wanna lose her.she claims she loves me but i cant feel the vibes.some nights i stay awake thinking about her.i just dont know what i can do to get over her. i just dont understand why she should still feel insecure with me,i have tried my best to make her happy..i showered her with gifts,openned up to her,tried my best to erase the distance between us.i dont know.or is it that i am paranoid and overreacting?

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