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ok so i don’t know if i like this guy or not.

i lovee his personality. he’s funny, nice, smart, and charming. he’s not really very cute but i mean he’s not incrediblly ugly either. ok so what happened was i liked him a lot for like 3 days and i told my friend on the second day and she was like ooh can i tell him? and i was like no cause i wasn’t really sure if i liked him or not but she was like can i tell him that someone likes him? and so i was like sure but if he guesses anyone just say maybe to everyone he guesses. so she told him and the first person he guesses is me and my friends likke maybee! and so he thinks i like him. but then i didn’t really like him anymore. but he still thinks i like him. and he kind of likes this one girl but only because he has this intuition that she likes him. so if he knows i like him then he’ll like me. basically i have this great chance with him but i just don’t know! i want to like him so bad ! but i just don’t know if i do or not! im so confused!

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mem offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

I know how you feel i am in exactly the same position usually when a guy is nice you jump to conclusions and you really like them but sometimes its best to just be friends because you dont want to damage yourr relationship but if he likes you too then o for it

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

yeaa im just confused… because i don’t know if i like him. like if i do it’s almost guaranteed he’d like me back. i guess i don’t know if im ready? or idk something like that. im only 13.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

okay, a lot of liking going on in there. you seem pretty young, so i’ll let you in on a secret, everyone feels this way once in a while. i’d say give it a little time. waiting it out for a few days or a week or two isn’t going to kill either of you. if you want, you can hang out with him (as friends) a little more to see which way your feelings are headed, and then discuss with him how he feels about you. you said he’s got a great personality (however i must say i was a little offended how you were rating him on his looks, looks shouldn’t be much of a deciding factor). just keep it cool for now and then see how it plays out.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (15 minutes after post)

i guess your right leedarien. and noo i promise i never judge people by how they look.

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