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I think that you need to get a BF and or go see someone

You have a typical teen crush. It will pass in time. When the next “famous band” makes it big. In the mean time, find a hobby….

Hmmm–your question contains your answer. You ARE getting sick of your compulsion! And that’s a good thing.

broken_dreams8: you yourself are ‘dream’ material. You are on the healthy side of ‘coming out’ of a fantasy about who these band members are.
You know, they could be self-centered, totally absorbed young people into a lifestyle that would totally turn you off; They could be so ‘caught’ up in their own popularity they are the most selfish ‘users’ of girls around. Have you heard of ‘groupies’? That’s a place you really don’t want to go! One in a long column of beautiful young girls caught up in the fantasy and glamor that media and money produces to be used for ‘one night stands’.
This attraction with your ‘idea’ of who these you people are exists purely in your imagination which has triggered your homones! And boy, what a hot combination that is. You likely know yourself, however, if you tried to act on it it could be a detrimental one.

You sound wise to the negative stuff already. Try and establish a balance in your life. However much time you are spending right now on following this group in your mind–get involved in other things instead.
Make wise choices. Good choices for yourself. How about visualizing/dreaming of you yourself in a starring role of some sort?!

This would be healthy to visualize your own future–to start dreaming about your own life. Start bringing your own uniqueness and possibilities into being–walking in those qualities that make YOU a star.

Because you are!

Be blessed.

P.S. every young person goes through a crush, I think, on a ’star’ of some sort. I remember the Beattles! At age 35 and 45 I was still
‘in love’ with George Harrison and Pierre Elliot Trudeau (a former Prime Minister of Canada). I was married with many children. Just don’t let this infatuation rule you. Your da BOSS!

Hey, I agree with Eden, your answer is in your question! Also, there is nothing wrong with this, as stated before, every teen has it at some time or another. Do you know how many people at my school (excluding me) have their lockers COVERED in Orlando Bloom or Jonny Depp? How whenever they open their lockers they kiss those pictures? (I personaly find this, well, nasty) How whenever they hear the name or see them in a movie they start screaming (burst my eardrum screaming) and killing themselves to tell them how much they LOVE them? It is a madhouse, but you know what? It’s natural! If you really want to stop, you need to just forget that you love them when they come up. They are just an ordinary band, in an ordinary world, and you are not obsessed with them any more. You need to tell yourself that, because only you can stop it!

I love ma Baby: now don’t complicate the poor girl’s life any more than it is. How about a part-time job?

tee-hee, I’m just joking!