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Alright well I need some advice on this.

Ok, about two weeks ago a really good friend of mine introduced me to this girl. Seconds after seeing her I knew I was going to like her a lot. Ever since that day i’ve liked her. All that week I did nothing but think about her all day and text her because I had gotten her number from my friend a while ago. The week went by and on that Friday my friend came over till late at night. We talked and talked and he basically con’d me into sending a message telling her that I really like her. Thankfully it was late at night when I did it and she was asleep. Then comes morning and responds and tells me thanks for telling her, so I ask her what she feels about me and she says sadly not the same. Normally I would’ve taken this alright but here’s the thing. During that week my friend told her that I like her and I told her that I had ’something’ to tell her on the phone. So during that Thursday or Friday she was ‘begging’ me to tell her that ’something’ (that I like her) but she already knew. So as Friday passed on ..I later in the day asked her what it was about me that she didn’t like and she had said it was my ‘looks’. Oh, and of course I asked her if we could still be friends even though she didn’t like me and she said yeah. But passing into this week we still text each other a lot and sometimes talk on the phone. And just a few days ago she told me that she loved me as a friend and I replied telling her that I love her as a friend too, but she then asked me if I love her as more than a friend (yet she already knows so…that isn’t really nice) but then said she would talk to me later but I didn’t say anything about it. So someone please help me with this I really really care about the girl and I would do anything for just one chance with her. She’s my ideal of a perfect girl for me, we listen to the same music, think the same things.

Oh and please don’t just say something like get over her, just give me a little advice here, I literally cannot stop thinking about her - It’s like she’s burned into my mind!

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2 months, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

she must be really hot, cause she sounds like a *****

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kr3wmasta5 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Not really, she’s a freshman and i’m a junior…so lmfao

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

well i think u might still have a chance with her bro. ya so dude u should really go her

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (3 hours, 51 minutes after post)

kay

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 3 days ago (1 month, 2 weeks after post)

Get some strengh, man. So you like her - that’s clear. But it sounds like she’s flip-flopping. She likes you, then she dosen’t. She loves you, then she dosen’t - do you reaize how immature that is - I mean is she like 7-years-old plucking petals off a flower, or what?
Take the high road. Tell her while she’s making up her mind that you’ll be going on about your way and leave her to her way. She’s gonna have to pony up one way or the other. And if it seems like she isn’t going your way, than you will have to accept that. Chicks like that are a dime-a-dozen, man.

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