Love help: Im cheating on my boyfriend and i cant seem to stop.

xXFallen_AngelXx

Im cheating on my boyfriend and i cant seem to stop.

I hate myself for doing it and i always said i never ever would but ive ended up having feelings for two guys. Im so confused and i know what im doing isnt fair but i dont know how to choose between them. What should i do??

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Qzzzz 2 #
Montpelier, MS, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 minute after post)

Only you can answer that one.

Sit down and list the pluses and minuses of each. Then, make a decision.

Good luck….

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (28 minutes after post)

I agree. Pros and cons. Also remember that once your boyfriend finds out there may be some serious trust issues even if you have stopped.

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Diesel1 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (31 minutes after post)

Once a cheater always a cheater. Shame on you. Tis the season to be jolly but not this way. You owe it to your boyfriend to be open and honest. Then he’ll dump you and you will have your other boyfriend to hang on to.

Help me with: Twin brothers wife died.

xXFallen_AngelXx 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (43 minutes after post)

thankyou for the comment but i disagree with ‘once a cheater always a cheater’. i know what im doing is wrong and of course i should be open and honest but the fact is ive made a big mistake. Everyone makes mistakes im sure you’ve made a fair few, we can change our actions however and thats what i intend to do, only i can choose what sort of person i become.
ps: i dont need anyone to hang on to.

Diesel1 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (46 minutes after post)

I have never cheated. I have made plenty of mistakes. But do one to others as you would have done to you.-boyscouts. I have too much empathy to do things like this. I also would never mess with my buddies girls. Friends first.

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xXFallen_AngelXx 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (53 minutes after post)

im sorry i thought this was help.com? i respect your opinon but i dont think you have the right to judge me. i have never done anything like this before, never will again and its putting me through hell thats why im looking for help.

Diesel1 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

I apologize if i have come off the wrong way. Thats the problem with no facial expressions. I would never judge you but merely hope that you never become the victim of your boyfriend cheating on you. It sounds as if you are sincere and no that you have made a mistake. I suppose i am a little rough around the edges because i have had a girl do this to me when i was a teenager. Good luck with your situation and i will not provide assistance any further so as not to upset you.

Help me with: Twin brothers wife died.

Queen Elizatron 4000 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

Break up with him and stay away from guys for a very long time. You need to find yourself because you’re not at all ready for love.

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shellbelle36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 hours, 41 minutes after post)

First of all why did u start cheating on him? Did u feel as if he was not the one? Tell them both u r cheating on them and maybe end it with both of them. Love Hurts but doesnt kill.

shellbelle36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 9 months ago (2 hours, 42 minutes after post)

First of all why did u start cheating on him? Did u feel as if he was not the one? Tell them both u r cheating on them and maybe end it with both of them. Love Hurts

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Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 year, 9 months ago (7 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Fallen_Angel, Don’t be offended so easily, look at all the other bits of wisdom that you acquired while at help.com. All this wisdom is for you to sort through and apply to your life. By not coming back, who are you hurting but yourself?

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