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anyone can help me.i dont know what am i doing right now?

i really have one guy i like.but i dont know he likes me or not,i met him like a year.we also going out.when we go to club,he will hold my hand.we even talk or text like almost 6 months,when i said:i gonna to move,and he going to move back.is that mean he like me.can u help me out.i met him is from my coworker,he is my coworker best friend.he came for vacation.first time we met.we also talked alot of stuff,the next day we also go out with his friends too,in that time he gave me his number.then day after the day,we start to date.i dated with him in 2 months,then he had to back to work.in that time we still have txt.in the Christmas that day he gave me text and he said:he didnt want back to town,he said:he want stay over there for few more years then move back to town.when i hear that ofcouse i feel sad.but i also respect him.after that day in didnt txt me no more.until he friend told me,he back to town already.in that time i’m so surprise,nervous and so mad on him.surprise is he back,nervous is scare he back with someone else,mad is y he didnt lets me know.when i met him,i knew he back by himself..i’m so happy on that.but this happy stay with me just only 2 week,after 2 week he has to back to work.after he back to work.he friend gave me text.said he like me and he love me too.he friend told me wait at him,he will back and marry me.when i read this txt,i feel happy.until one day i hear other friend said to me:he said his like me,when they ask him.did i his gurl friend?then he didnt say nothing just only smile.is that mean he like me or not.when i hear my friend said to me,i feel so sad.last month,i text him ask about our relationship,but he didnt reply me or call me.final i have to make decision,i told him i gonna to move.he also didnt say nothing too..until last week.my friend told me,he gonna move back to town n stay right here too.he told my friend help him to find the job too.everyone said this time he move back is because of me.but for me i really dont know,he move back is about me or not.can u guys give me some avide

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Find someone who lives near you.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

i know..but i cant forgot him lol.right here also have a lot of guys ask me for date,but i didnt have any feeling with them.can i do to make me forgot him/

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

As long as you think you have a chance with this other guy, you’ll waste your energy hoping and fantasizing. The guy who is away always seems much better than the guy here because you can fantasize about the guy who is away. The guy here is quite obviously a human with lots of faults.

Forget the guy.

Go on the dates and concentrate on really getting to know the guys around you. Give them your full attention. Everyone has something to offer.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

yup..u re right.i have to move on.do u think i date with other is mean cheat on him?cuz he even said break up with me.

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