How to make my boyfriend miss me and want to see me?

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How to make my boyfriend miss me and want to see me?

I make myself available always, and it’s probably also my mistake that he is taking me for granted. he makes plans with friends, and when he’s not ‘I’ll be there anyway’. I never talk about how I feel about it and act cool, so he probably thinks I do not mind? How to make him appreciate me more and how can I resist being available 24/7. I know that saying that I want my boyfriend to miss me is not the right explanation but I dont know how to put it differently. I don’t want to play games, that’s not my intention. but I want a subtile way of showing him how I feel. PLEASE HELP!

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Mrs. Hasta Pianoman 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Just tell him. If he doesn’t appreciate you, he’s not worth it

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vivzofwale 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 years, 9 months ago (8 minutes after post)

take up a new hobby…? something that requires practicing or hanging out with a team/group. that way you’re genuinely doing something else and at the same time, you’re too preoccupied with a new adventure to care about spending all your time with him.

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Anonymous #
3 years, 9 months ago (12 minutes after post)

vivzofwale wrote:
take up a new hobby…? something that requires practicing or hanging out with a team/group. that way you’re genuinely doing something else and at the same time, you’re too preoccupied with a new adventure to care about spending all your time with him.

thank you :) I think I will make more plans and say no more often, and if it doesn’t help the subtile way I will talk about it with him :)

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 6 months ago (2 months, 3 weeks after post)

just be cool and you reject seeing him once in awhile because you already made your plan..if theres any thing disturbing you, just see him and tell him with a very nice kidding way…try to get some cool friends and no one deserve you drop a tear lady