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“friend” troubles…

Okay so heres the problem..last year I made a lot of new friends and I was really happy with everything..I made one really close friend that I thought was going to last..then summer came and he didn’t bother to talk to me at all even though I tried several times..he didn’t even bother to ask me how I was doing or anything..so now here I am back at school and he suddenly thinks were best friends again..when really I’m kind of really mad at him..and I don’t know how to tell him whats going on in my head and how mad I am at him. Should I tell him whats going on with me..ignore him..or just forget what happened this summer and go on with me life??

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 143 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

You need to tell him how you feel and how it made you feel that he did not even bother to talk to you or ask you how you were over the summer. Tell him that you are ready to always be friends not just during school or when he feels like it. Tell him you feel a friendship is forever and not just a once in a while thing when it’s convenient for either of you. If you don’t tell him it’s always going to bother you and if you go without saying anything, he might do it again. Don’t delay. More blunt than that, you cannot tell him.

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STE3L offline Verified User (9 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

text how you feel to him, its a lot eseyr that way.

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calemus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

that person is called an enviromental variable
dont trust them like a true friend, but be greatfull that the two of you are friendly with eachother.
dont act like he’s your best friend unless things change.
obviously from the previous lessoned learned you have shared with us sometimes it will be a long time before you see who is who.
never give to much credit where credit has not been made due

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 20 minutes after post)

well if what he did was really that bad you probably wouldnt be on here asking for help,you would know what to do, I say you tell him that he really hurt you but still forgive him.

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

so i told him how i felt and stuff and he apologized and told me he had no way of contacting me and that is kind of true. so i think i was over- reacting to the whole situation. so things are pretty good right now and were friends and i’m happy so thanks for all of the advice. it is very much appreciated! :)

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