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Dating help.

I dont know if I really have a point to this but wanted to write. I would like to find someone to date. Someone I can hang out with talk about my day with, and hear about theirs. Someone to share experiences with. I havent had any thing like this in over a year. It seems like it should be simple enough to come by. Im not looking for something perfect either.

Ive looked in personals and dating sites. These have proved ineffective and actually pretty hurtful. Either endless streams of emails only to be flaked on after agreeing to meet. Or ruthlessly blunt comments. I dont know why people are so opposed to meeting someone new.

I have led a pretty lonely life for a long time. I have gotten used to it. This is not what I want. It makes it tough when meeting new people. Finding out that I am so alone puts people off. Its kindof an endless cycle. Its easier getting used to it and less painful. This really does suck.

I do things such as voluteer, look to join groups and continue to seek. I dont want my life to continue like this. I see dating as a way for this trend to change, however, it just isnt working. So thats where I’m at.

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piledriver_ edited this post 2 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Dating help.

I dont know if I really have a point to this but wanted to write. I would like to find someone to date. Someone I can hang out with talk about my day with, and hear about theirs. Someone to share experiences with. I havent had any thing like this in over a year. It seems like it should be simple enough to come by. Im not looking for something perfect either.

Ive looked in personals and dating sites. These have proved ineffective and actually pretty hurtful. Either endless streams of emails only to be flaked on after agreeing to meet. Or ruthlessly blunt comments. I dont know why people are so opposed to meeting someone new.

I have led a pretty lonely life for a long time. I have gotten used to it. This is not what I want. It makes it tough when meeting new people. Finding out that I am so alone puts people off. Its kindof an endless cycle. Its easier getting used to it and less painful. This really does suck.

I do things such as voluteer, look to join groups and continue to seek. I dont want my life to continue like this. I see dating as a way for this trend to change, however, it just isnt working. So thats where I’m at.

Help me with: Im feeling alone and sad

piledriver_ edited this post 2 months, 2 weeks ago. Read the previous text »

Dating help.

I dont know if I really have a point to this but wanted to write. I would like to find someone to date. Someone I can hang out with talk about my day with, and hear about theirs. Someone to share experiences with. I havent had any thing like this in over a year. It seems like it should be simple enough to come by. Im not looking for something perfect either.

Ive looked in personals and dating sites. These have proved ineffective and actually pretty hurtful. Either endless streams of emails only to be flaked on after agreeing to meet. Or ruthlessly blunt comments. I dont know why people are so opposed to meeting someone new.

I have led a pretty lonely life for a long time. I have gotten used to it. This is not what I want. It makes it tough when meeting new people. Finding out that I am so alone puts people off. Its kindof an endless cycle. Its easier getting used to it and less painful. This really does suck.

I do things such as voluteer, look to join groups and continue to seek. I dont want my life to continue like this. I see dating as a way for this trend to change, however, it just isnt working. So thats where I’m at.

Help me with: Im feeling alone and sad

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