Im feeling alone and sad

piledriver_

Im feeling alone and sad

I just tryed posting and it diddnt work so here goes a second try. Previously I was looking for help with dating or just finding a date. Someone who I could spend time with. Yuck, this isnt so easy the second time.

Basicly I live alone and keep mainly to myself. I dont have any friendships and the ones I do make sputter out pretty quick. I try and involve myself in life voluteering and joining groups, looking for people in personals and dating sites but it just isnt working for me. One of the main reasons is that I am so alone and that puts people off. Worse it can leave me quite vulnerable to people who are nasty and mean. Either way is pretty much sucks.

I am hurting and this is my attempt at expressing that.

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camo731 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

Ok, the first thing you need to know, or find out, is what kind of a woman you are looking for? You need to be around others more, see what you like and don’t like about others.

Also, perhaps you are looking around in the wrong place, if you aren’t fitting in well.

ji.nandaxu 1 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

don’t you a born American?
if not,you can join in some clues that have the topics that you may like.
just try it,you’d make it finally.

Help me with: i love to be a teacher,that feels really good,though my inspiration is to be a scientist.

gvlfl 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

What about Meetups for shy people? They have good turnouts. Use the net to find stuff, but loneliness is tough to fix online. I’ve tried.

Also, concentrate on a few things, eye contact and smiling are the first few. People can tell the difference between a person who doesn’t want to be around and a person who is scared but wants to be around. The first is a turnoff, the second gives people an opening. You can communicate “I want to be here but I’m nervous” with a good-faith, even if unskilled, effort at connection.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 month after post)

I’ve never heard of anybody so sad and lonely in the world and I just would like to send you a friendly tought. I think you really need it and I suppose you deserve it, since I feel somehow you have a gentle soul. Please do not feel lonely: there is Somebody who look down to you with love from the sky and somebody else (that’s me) who thinks to you with simpathy and friendship on the other side of the Ocean.
A hug!

Esme

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