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! So i have been in trouble for a long time… I had to spend six months not being out of my parents sight to earn trust. FINALLY i get out on my own for two days, i messed up. I have this relationship with this guy (my age) but he goes to public school i do online school cus my parents cant trust me at public, and NOW i have no trust with my parents and am not aloud to leave the house for atleast 90 days. I told my boyfriend that and he says hes gonna waite. But i wanna be able to see him. And im sneaking around talking to him on messenger which im not suppost to do but thats how we talk. He still wants to be with me and i want to be with him. What now?…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

I think an important part you left out is WHY your parents don’t trust you. My, and many others i think, advice would be diffrent depending on that answer.
best wishes.

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rdavis 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

They dont trust me because i am always going behind there backs. I had realtionships with older guys, and i lie like about everything to cover up crap.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (34 minutes after post)

So quit lying and going behind their backs. That’s the first thing you need to do.

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rdavis 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

Yeah i know but for some reason i just cant stop!

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littlenick 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (36 minutes after post)

how old r u?

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rdavis 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

15!

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littlenick 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (41 minutes after post)

15! Wow! I don’t think it’s that your parents don’t trust the public school system, it’s just that they don’t trust you all together because you have given them plenty of reasons time and again not to trust you.

You need to change your behavior and your attitude about wanting to do what you want to do when you want to.

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rdavis 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (44 minutes after post)

You are absoluty right! But i even got sent away three states away to get help! but it still doesnt seem to be enough. I just dont know how to stop!

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US | 2 months, 1 week ago (48 minutes after post)

i think u should 1st of all apoligise 2 ur parents for braking there trust with you, and say that you accept ur concequences and that it wont happen again. and then you should stop messing about and do things and take responsibility for ur actions. uno if u do something wrong this happens so why do it in the 1st place? and for your boyfriend.. who cares.. ur 15… there will be other people stop livin in the past n live in the now, u cant change wat has been done so do you disapline and get bk on track with ur life

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rdavis 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (53 minutes after post)

Thank you so much!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (11 hours after post)

Are you sexually active? If so maybe you should consider the consequences of those actions.
Ever done drugs (including tobacco and booze in your case)?
If you have and don’t want to change it will only be a matter of time until you are forced to obey. By the way that’s called jail and prison. Sounds like to me you have an authority problem. You can do what you want to do! Everbeen in a 12 step program if so you need to start following it, thats the best way to change that I know of. Your parents need to go to the program for them that helps them realize that they can’t “fix” you. Some day they may come to a point where all your stuff is on the front lawn and the locks are changed. Yea, it does happen i can tell you from experience. For the guys you are seeing all they want is somebody to get it on with. I’ll bet therir feels are “Lust” and not “Love”. Change your life NOW before you kill your self from an overdose or something. DUMP THE GUYS! and build a loving relationship with your parents (both mom and dad). It’s not to late but some day it may be. don’t get to that point!
Thanks (people do care about you and love you)
DLFrand

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