Well there this guy but i don’t know what to do?

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Well there this guy but i don’t know what to do?

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well there this guy who like fancy me and well i don’t know what to do as i don’t fancy him and that and i told him that and he said its okay but he wants to meet up but im gonna feel awkward and that when i do meet him and stuff what should i do ?? by the way if you wanna know my age im 16 and his age he’s 18

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colly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

If you dont like him in the same way dont meet him, he might think you do?

liquiddreamsinmymin 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

hmm well he said that okay that i dont fancy him and tht :S

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zilverknight 42 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

what’s the point meeting up if your not interested?

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colly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

If you really want to go anyway, go with a friend, so your not alone with him. But I wouldnt go, as he might think you do like him because you turned up, even though you told him you didnt.

Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

well he is my friend and i dont wanna hurt his feelings nd that….

colly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Is he wanting to see you alone or in a bunch with other mates?

liquiddreamsinmymin 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

well he didnt really mention any mates or nothing

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colly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

If I were you I would only meet him with other mates too, and not alone. Even if youve known him a long time, its the best and safest thing to do.

Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

okay i probably do that but ermm sorry if this is a silly question but why not alone ?

colly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Because he might mistake you going alone as a sign that you might be interested after all. If you really are not interested in that way, then why would you want to be alone with him after he told you he fancied you? Its just so he doesnt get the wrong idea.

Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

oh right thanks sorry if that was a stupid question! but i think i take friend with me defo!

colly 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Its not a stupid question, no questions are stupid if your not sure of the answer. Glad to hear it, the more the merrier.

Anonymous #
2 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

yea, either dont meet with him. or if you do meet with him make sure u tell him as soon as you meet him you dont feel the same but u want to be friends, and u may neva no ur feelings may change when u hang around with him

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