Family help: I’m in love and in trouble!

mesatanlove

I’m in love and in trouble!

Ok so im in love with a great man( Shane). Before you start guessing, his in love with me to, his not married, no hitting( rough houseing ), and his not asking me to change. Give up?

The problem is his brother Mike. He hates me!

When Shane and me had started dateing, we went to see some friend and had missed the last bus. We were stuck! I call a few friends and no one could come get us. Shane said it was a longshot but he could call his famly. His dad said ” I’m to buzzed to drive but Mike is up there. Maybe give him a call”.

So we call and the conversation went a bit like this…

Shane - Yo, bro. Its me. Im stuck in longmont. The last bus ran right by me.
Mike - Dude that sucks. Can anyone come get you?
Shane - We called everyone but no one can get out here.
Mike - Well im comeing up that way a little later. Can you wait for and hour?
Shane - Shrue. Thanks. Or and Sarah saids thanks too.
Mike - Your new girlfriend? Wait, how old is she?
Shane - 19 turns 20 in August. Why?
Mike - Oh well i dont let minors into my car. Find a new way home. Later.

That was little less then a year ago and nothings changed! Im always polite and nice to him but he loths me!I love my guy to death. Im not leaving him but i dont know how to make his bro like me. He loves bouth of us and it kills him we dont get along.

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~LazyDaze~ 317 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

I take it your in America then for 19-20 to be classed as a minor O_O
LoL at 20 I was married with a kid but then I guess each country to their own.

Anyhow.
How does your fella and brother get on, are they close?
Does how his brother feel about you matter to the relationship your in?

You haven’t done anything wrong and you can’t try and correct something when it is his problem not yours.

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courtybubble 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

O_o Mike sounds like a prize ******* if you ask me. And honestly, it doesnt seem like its your problem. It seems hes just an ******* for the sake of it. has you guy asked him why he doesnt like you? i think your guy should really man up a bit and tell his brother to get the hell over whatever his problem is and act a little more respectful of the lady he loves.

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Jr. 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Maybe he likes you?

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mesatanlove 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Your right im in America but 18 is the minor cut off age. So the whole thing was bullspit.

Their not call eachother every weekend close but they are close.

I really dont mind what he thinks because Shane said he’d stay no matter what but i can see it hurts him that me and Mike dont like eachother.

and eventhough i dident do anything worng it is my problem. I’ve have to fix it.

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courtybubble 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

then simply meet up with him, just you and him, and ask him to-demand him to-talk it out with you and tell you what his problem is so you can fix it. if he wont, then its really not your problem, its his.

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mesatanlove 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

i tryed to. he say “i could care less about whats upsets you. just cause your ******* my big brother dosent mean i have to like you.”

He just has taken a real dislike to me and no one seems to know why. i guess what i want is a way to make my Shane feel beter about the whole thing.

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mesatanlove 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

btw courtybubble, i read your new god. i loved it. I sent it to every email adress i have.

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courtybubble 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

lol, aint it a kick haha.
idk…all i can think of is getting your guy Shane to speak to him and just tell him to man up or get over it really. its his brother, so he has a lot more weight behind what he says.
its sounds like this guy either has issues with women in general, or maybe hes head over heels for you-who knows. but the bottom line is hes acting childish and pathetic and someone needs to pull him into line, either Shane, you, or perhaps one of his parents, are you close to his mum or dad?

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