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I need help, and require assistance in ascertaining it.

My family is defunct, my father a convicted pedophile, and my mother is a reclusive bi-polar, abused wife syndrome, manic nightmare…

My friends have alienated me because of a contentious lifestyle they cannot begin to grasp at with their experiences in a relativistically wholesome environment.
I feel adrift, and an empty abyss seems my only confidant as though i must remain here, alone.
Please, if any of you have the time, and god willing the energy, helps me figure out how i can redeem my future, and escape what I believe to be the maelstrom to come, if I do not find the means to deal with my problems.

I have experienced so many tragedies, my desolation knows no bounds, however, I grip to the tentative hope that there is a light on the horizon, if only I can find a way to find it……
Age - Mid Twenties Australia Male

(If I can post such info, otherwise, my apologies)

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alexhiet offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

hey, thats pretty rough, we get dealt our cards, some bad some good- what are your good cards? you can still make something of yourself- against the odds.
What do you mean by contentious lifestyle?

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2 months, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

ok, so what have you been doing to get ahead?
have you been seeing your doctor, counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist
Do you have a job?
Can you explain more about how and why you have been feeling isolated by your friends?
Do you have at least one good friend?

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Anonymous #
2 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

oh, I’m aussie, mid twenties too :)
havnt had the best cards played with my life either, but Ive managed to source out pretty good help to feel better :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 54 minutes after post)

hey man. your past is not your future. where youve come from is always going to be a part of you, but it doesnt define you. only you can do that.
what are your hopes? your goals/dreams? do you want to study, or work, or travel?
coz its totally all possible. you can make it happen.
it sucks a big fat one when your friends dont get you. ive been there too, with things that have happened in my life, and my friends just simply did not understand. in a way im glad they didnt, because it means they havent been through what i had, which im sure you think too-but it is also very isolating to not be understood.
im not sure what to tell you about that…i still struggle with it, but i found meeting new people helped a bit. have you ever looked into a family support group? im sure theres one out there for bipolar, and you could really meet some people who have been through what you have and will understand.
you will also find a lot of people here who have been through things-maybe not exactly the same, but we understand pain and the daily struggle to keep your head above the waves in a storm.
have you thought about a fresh start somewhere else? not sure if youre financially in the place to do that, but it can be a really good thing if its possible. even just an extended holiday.
come on over to NZ and ill be your friend, were way cooler anyways :)

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