This is my mothers death notice in the newspapers and I am not even down as being her daughter:

scary doll

This is my mothers death notice in the newspapers and I am not even down as being her daughter:

SMITH — MOIRA. Peacefully, on 12th September, 2009, at the Beatson, Moira, loving mother and boss of Gary and David, and proud granny. Funeral service at Daldowie Crematorium, Broomhouse, on Friday, 18th September, at 11.45am. No black to be worn and no flowers please. Donations, if desired, to the Beatson.

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~LazyDaze~ 447 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (1 minute after post)

Sorry to hear about your mum :(
I guess everyone’s upset and can allow for a few mistakes.

Who was in charge of putting it in the newspaper?

Help me with: I can’t freaking believe I am stuck on a 7yr olds homework!

scary doll 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (3 minutes after post)

I was told they were doing that by her sons.

I feel like a piece of ****.

~LazyDaze~ 447 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Then tell them, or ask them, why you were excluded from it, sounds a little odd to do something like that.

Help me with: I can’t freaking believe I am stuck on a 7yr olds homework!

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Sorry for your loss. If the sons did that on purpose they are really jackasses.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

scary doll 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (14 minutes after post)

David has stolen from, attacked and lied about me for years. She never believed me and I walked away two years ago after she witnessed an attack but would not accept what she saw. I am excluded for telling them what happened and they did not believe me. She has been dying and no one told me, which is fine, but now they are in touch and saying they forgive me!!!!!!!!

Why are they touching my life again and why are they so proud of this death notice? You never get any truth from that family only more lies and deceit.

My life was starting to get back to normal. I was starting to function again. I don’t think I can go through all of this again, I really cannot relive all of that.

scary doll 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

I really feel I am at a crisis point here. I d

Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months ago (16 minutes after post)

Don’t let them get to you. Don’t relive it. You have moved on no reason to change that. You can mourne her without them.

Help me with: How depressed are you on a scale of one to ten with ten being almost dead and one being haveing a smile on your face presently.

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Eddieee 132 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (21 minutes after post)

I am sorry to hear about your mothers passing. You can place your own notice and exclude them if you wish. I suggest you focus on your mom and forget the petty family issues. God Bless

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Keckers 9 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (26 minutes after post)

You don’t need their ******** and prissy little forgiveness.
Don’t give them the time of day.
They’re insignificant entities to you and deserve to be discarded and treated like nothing.
You can mourn her death without them.

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Anonymous #
2 months ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Eddieee wrote:
I am sorry to hear about your mothers passing. You can place your own notice and exclude them if you wish. I suggest you focus on your mom and forget the petty family issues. God Bless

I think that I would do this, if I was in your situation, just so that your friends know and can offer comfort, support and prayers.

I’m so sorry that things are hard for you. I know how low a person can feel because I have been there. Believe me, it DOES get better. I’m nowhere near perfect, but SOOOOO much better than a few years ago. Focus on you and what you need for your own healing and don’t worry about the rest.

scary doll 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (20 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Her funeral took place an hour ago and I am in a different part of the country. I could not go and face those bastards. I am getting slowly drunk. I feel I am in unchartered emotional land here.

Anonymous #
2 months ago (22 hours, 1 minute after post)

I’m so sorry that you are hurting. They were incredibly insensitive with how they handled things. Not your fault. I wish you peace and comfort.

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