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Depressed.

I am depressed…I feel like i am just going through the motions. My life is worthless and yet i have to go to school and church and pretend like its all okay that i feel this way. My heart hurts…so bad…how do i get this to go away?

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hloky offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I’m really sorry you feel that way, but what i do when i feel really bad is find something (anything; like working out or reading) and just focus everything on that. Just make sure it’s a healthy habit. Sorry if it doesn’t help much.

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leedarien offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

first of all, your life is not worthless. and second of all-you don’t need to pretend. i know it’s hard sometimes when you’re feeling that way to talk to other people,especially those close to you about what you’re feeling, but pretending that everythign’s all right isn’t going to get you anywhere. i suggest for now since your head hurts take tylenol (might help, might not) and get a drink of water, then sit down and tell us what’s wrong, why you feel depressed.

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

how old are you?

im 19 and have felt like that for awhile.

if you want we can talk on aim

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Anonymous #
2 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

well its my heart that hurts and im 15…sure id like that…my aim is happihippi21 aol com

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leedarien offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

your hearts hearting? why?

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

it says your offline. mine is raciallkonfuzed. i can probably relate to you because of my one experience with my ex

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

sry, raciallykonfuzed

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sum offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

Ive been very depressed before so i know what its like. Whats got you down? Did something happen or is it just that you feel this way without reason? You could just go to a doctor if you need to and its fairly common so its not as big a deal as you might think. Some things you can do is to hang out with friends and make new ones too. Start going out and doing new things you normally wouldnt because you were afraid to but wanted to. Take your daily multi vitamins and start exersizing. Listen to lots of music and watch lots of comedies.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

exercise! it is the best anti-depressant! you’ll look better, feel better, and chances are you’ll meet great people too.

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Rock On \m/ offline Verified User (3 months) Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

listen to ozzy, always helps

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

idk if your still on, but what is causing the heart ache?

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

I better keep my Mouth shut,otherwise i would have said something else.

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undeveloped offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

what do you mean barbyman?

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Barbyman offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

Meaning at that Age the World is your Oyster.. There is nothing like depression at that Age its just not wanting to…..whatever ,being Lazy no Goals no Achiever just being a Zombie..Learn and Learn and Observe and make your own judgement about things .That is life Experience.Be a Leader not a Follower..

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Anonymous #
2 months, 2 weeks ago (58 minutes after post)

Well i have my goals…and that has nothing to go with anything that i feel. I just feel like i dont matter anymore. I changed my whole life for someone that didnt care. I do everything to make him happy and it means nothing to him. I have so much I want to do…but what does it matter if im never going to be heard. If I can get one guy to listen…then how am i gonna get other people to. o well. im online now. on meebo sorry i had to go do dishes.

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sum offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

Do what makes you happy rather than others. People listen but you cant always tell.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 4 minutes after post)

you need to not worry about those other people. focus on doing things that are important to you and if no one wants to listen, dont let it bother you.

if you like him, you need to sit down and talk to him and let him know how you feel and if he doesnt wanna listen then move on from him.

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