relationship help: What’s a bf/gf? - Help.com

To awnser your question it seems to be a junction between being single and being married. Of course it seems meaningless to be with someone just a short while knowing that you would never be together.

This dosen’t apply to you of course, just saying. Just take time to be together and take time to be apart is the key to a healthy relationship.

gf/bf is nothing more than a title

You may not want to be alone, no one really does. The question to ask is will you stay with the person you are with now or depart paths later on down the road.

Titles don’t mean much to me, but they are how we keep our society organized. I think that the way the people feel about each other SHOULD be the issue at hand, but labels and such are so ingrained in us I think it isn’t a practical idea to live without them. If two people care about each other and both desire to share an intimate closeness that suffices to me, if you are with some one you aren’t really enjoying being with how is that better than single?

You should be into your gf for the long haul.
She should be into you for the long haul.
So if you want to wait then she needs to wait.