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this might be honestly hurtful maybe he just wanted a one night stand us men are not very nice sometimes also many woman also do mess with mens minds as well just recently i had that kinda thing where i kissed a girl after a date sent her a txt when i got home she said she liked the kiss the next day she didnt want to go out anymore maybe in the moment there interested but they think after how complicated it might be as your good friends and he doesnt want to ruin that

Well it sounds like he might be a little confused himself. I wouldn’t give up just yet. And also don’t take what he said to much to heart(its a classic stereotype that guys say things that they don’t mean). The best thing to do is to talk to him about his feelings and what he meant by what he said. And that could be very hard and also a very awkward thing to do but it sounds like you guys need to talk about it. Let him know that you are confused and what he said hurt you and that it also hurt you by what he did by getting your hopes up. If you don’t let him know how you feel and bottle it up inside your just going to have to keep on pretending that you feel happy when you hang out with him. And if it doesn’t go well this would be the first step to getting over him. Because not knowing whether or not there is still a chance between you guys will keep you still crushing on him. Bottom line you guys should talk about it. Hope that helps.