I have a new support worker at university I think he’s a decent guy but I dont feel I bond with him.

spiritedsoul

I have a new support worker at university I think he’s a decent guy but I dont feel I bond with him.

I just changed from someone else as I wasnt happy when I was round her either. now Im even more unhappy and I feel selfish for not being able to bond well.

Im too embarrassed to change. what do I do?

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 months, 1 week ago (19 hours, 20 minutes after post)

which poem, i wrote loads.
im not expecting a love relationship with this person, i dont meant it like that.
i have spoken to him for a fair few hours and i just dont feel connected. i get bored and feel empty. basically i just dont think hes may type of person. the thing is, if i plan to have him would be a lot of hours in weeks for the whole year. i dont feel comfortable changing. ill give him a bit more of a try but idont feel i bond.
i feel bad about it but i guess having a support worker is about what works best for me.

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Sandgate, G5, GB | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 day, 15 hours after post)

thanks

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