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Having trouble understanding this girls actions.

Started work a few months back and recently got chatting to a girl who I have found out off a pal, that she liked me. He sits next to her in work and it came up in convo. The girl had no idea, that we were mates at the time. Anyway just recently asked this girl for a number and got it off her, she also took mine and texted me like 2 Mins later. Things were goin well we been texting and chatting but not heard back offfuse for a day or so, she hasn’t replied to 2 messages I’ve sent. So am thinking don’t text her again just wait and see her come Monday in work and just chat to her. Maybe ask her out or something. I prefer speaking to her or anyone face to face. texting just complicates things ha.

Don’t know if she is being shy or hard to get. But think I’ll lay low kinda don’t wanna push it. Let her make the next move and just speak to her in work normally, see if she is game for a date and that. Don’t wanna get caught in the “friend zone” tho.

Anyone any suggestions or can understand

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silver offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

i see yeah i did that to and it can be hard to get i like to be the same way but i think u should talk to her cause texting is just tuped up words so talk to her and let her know wat u say is wat u mean

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Don’t date anybody at work. If it does not work out between you two, it will make your work environment weird and awkward until one of you gets fired or quits.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

Just cos we work together. Ain’t gonna stop me taking her out. Not like were kids if things don’t work out so what.

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