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Hi, right…

.. Ive been with my boyfriend 5 years and weve got a little girl together but I just dont like him (never mind love him)any more. I feel as though I cant do anything and my life is just slipping by. He is totally unreasonable, moody and basically just acts like a grumpy teenager, but then when I get cross with him, he just makes out its all my fault! But then other times he’s really nice but Ive got myself into such a mood with him I end up causing huge rows. I just dont know what to do but its really getting me down. I know we shouldnt be together but I cant seem to break away, over the last 5 years Ive totally isolated myself from my friends and theyve all moved on with their lives and the majority dont even live round me any more, and with a small child and working full time I find it difficult to get out to meet new people. I think if I had a lots of support I would leave him but I just feel as though if I do go I will be totally alone.

Please give me any advice all will be appreciated.

Thanks x

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classicrock1818 online Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

try to have a level conversation with him about all of this. dont get excited or seem angry with him going into the conversation. if you are any emotion, seem worried, which it seems like you are. you should talk it through with him and see if you can resolve your issues with him, just try for the sake of your child. if you cannot, maybe try a temporary seperation. nothing permanent. dont do anything rash. but try talking with him first and dont make it into an argument. good luck :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 6 minutes after post)

it is a tricky 1! as i was a child who parents were not together 4 long it is not great but it does not bother me most of the time. but u still have to think about u and if u r not happy and u have been trying for 5 years it is ovviously not working. u reali need to talk about it with him tho.

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